on grieving, moving, and protesting

[yourshade]

Grief is a strange process. It's interesting how unexpected and random the moments are when I suddenly feel a surge of sadness. Like, just a minute ago, I was browsing through my dad's CD's, trying to find that Alison Krauss & Robert Plant album to listen to while I shower. I was trying to figure out which of their names he would alphabetize it

Comments

[sympetrum]

I know what you mean about the "unexpected and random" moments. Tey happen to me still and frequently, but the emotion changes with time. With time and distance it becomes nostalgia and a smile as opposed to the sadness that sometimes seems so overwhelming.

No matter what you do allow yourself to feel. All too often I hear these things people say like "Just keep busy" or "Find something to focus on". That is the worst BS in the world. You sound like you are letting yourself grieve though and that is so very important.

As for hot-tubbing with the ex babysitter...hmmm that sounds very interesting indeed, lol.

Prevo = Pervo it just seems so obvious and necc, lol.

Take care of you Wales.

[krull]

Thinkin' about you sir and hoping you're well.

Are you moving into your Dad's place?

[lil_b]

Prevo... He's such a nutter. How do so many people follow a nutter?