Sep 07, 2005 12:06
Just Me:
Take it easy. You're feeling vulnerable and may want to protect yourself from things that you perceive as dangerous. This is a laudable instinct, but remember not to shut things down completely. After all, there are plenty of people out there who care about you, and cutting yourself off from them isn't part of the plan. In fact, someone out there is working overtime on your behalf. You'll like what you see after you emerge from your hidey-hole.
Me and Him:
Some fierce intensity may be throwing the nice little thing the two of you had going all out of whack. But while it's completely disconcerting, it may not be the worst thing in the world -- not by a long stretch. Getting knocked out of that cozy comfort zone may smart, but it's also necessary for (you guessed it) growth. Take a Zen approach: Experience what's going on, and then let it go. You want to make room for the next (bigger, better) thing, don't you? It's coming quicker than you think.