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I had my first real experience with scene play, and negotiating, and I realize I left out a lot I should have said.

( potentially explicit details )

I keep thinking there's so much good advice in here that people need to read.

Sometimes I think about writing a 'good parts' versiion, and then I think about what I would want to include, and realize it would basicly be the whole book.

No new excercises, but some interesting thoughts that I'm still digesting.

( cut more out of habit than necessity )

The idea is to write down everything that could happen in a scene, then label each as yes, no, or maybe. Then mark which ones I feel I need, and which ones I want.

( What activities do I want )

Every chapter of this book is going to make me post something, isn't it?
The next exercise:

( Emotions and roles in BDSM )

I started reading the New Bottoming Book. I've only gotten through the first section, just describing what the book is about, and already I have lots of new insights.

( Cut for length and adult topics )

Your result for The Kink Spectrum Analysis Test...

Ultraviolet (350 nm)

You scored 85% self-confidence and 76% bandwidth!


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With much help and conversation with my mate, I stripped down all my problems and emotions, trying to find out what I really need in a scene ( Read more... )

( Cut for adult topics and language )