1. If you're going to do it, just do it! If somebody's got up the nerve to ask someone to marry them, and that someone says yes, what a lovely moment! It's not good to water it down with 6-12 months of planning, which can be fun depending on what you find fun (cough-cough, type-A-personalities, cough...), but also utterly de-romanticizes the whole ( Read more... )