i watched this raw for certain parts long ago. and i like it so much. i'm happy you started working on this. coz my wish last time, if i could find the vcd, i'm gonna watch with my family. but after i read your reviews.. damn, i have to think 44 times again. i wonder what my parents, my mom especially would feel if she watched this.
the story quite same with me and my young sister experienced day-to-day, in someway somehow. sometimes we felt lost, sometimes we became stronger with support from people around.
writing notes with pencil.. :) yeah. but we can't expect that always to be romantic thing. from my experience, people could be annoyed sometimes and wouldn't tolerate much because it took time to communicate especially when they're in the middle of urgency.
a difficulty of a deaf mother with normal kid. we used to babysit our nephews... from experience, we have to be sharp using other senses [including sixth sense]. but sometimes, i've difficulty to hear the sounds of crying. or lost the sixth sense whether the baby gonna fall immediately in what kind of direction.
but compared to deaf mother with normal kid... normal mother with deaf kid is much much more difficult. taihen. really. i know because we always troubled our mom (since born i guess). normal mom has to deal the kid's disability, and other physical illness and symptoms. but most important is their emotional or psychological aspect. normal mom has to be very strong-heart and patient with this [even a brilliant but deaf kids always has their own tantrums and mood swings].
after deal with our inferiority and disorders, being guided to the right path.. then a marriage and building family are not easy matter for us. i think my mom already worried about this since long ago. like i said, even people know and understand our disability, not many could tolerate it for their whole life.
i guess only man who has a strong love and very strong patience would do. but that couldn't guaranteed his family-side support. so many normal, perfectly beautiful women out there, why needs to have the imperfect one here. moreover, certain people still think that deaf is a genetic disease which would effect their inheritances. i wonder if this World really has more hirofumi shinji.
[regarding miho cried in front of her mom & shinji's mother who asking for their break-up. miho said she was grateful she was born which she get opportunity to meet shinji.]
in my case, one night.... my mom was the one who kneeling in front of us. holding both our hands, my mom smiling in tears, asking our apologize for being a not so good mother, she wasn't healthy and had a weak body during pregnant us. but she's fight herself to deliver us. {emm, somehow this reminds me of upcoming nakama's Tsubaki Flowers story}. time to time, since few years back, my mom kept on apologizing just in case if she didn't understand us well or did something that makes us angry. i dunno why... but seems that she's preparing her 'farewell'. i guess she's worried us more if we couldn't be independent on ourselves, and have to depend on others.
somehow things like this makes me sad. i mean in that drama, i'm sure that normal kid will grown up even just 5 or 6 years, kid will take a good care of her deaf mother. from what i see in real-life, that's happened to some people i know.
but in our case, it would be difficult for us to take care our normal parents. in whatever we do, how much efforts we put... they're still either worry or sad. and that's frustrated me so much. it's like everything become useless. and that's the beginning of the long internal conflicts and misunderstanding.
last time, when i had that incident, someone scolded me - how come u couldn't hear suspicious sounds. how come u couldn't sense the dangers going to come." .. i felt i was thrown into a big deep black hole. never ever in my life i would know that my disability could put me in a life-death situation.
:) taihen da na anyway, if i hadn't been born.. i guess i wouldn't meet you. ^^
sorry for my long rants. i will ask my mom first if she's interested to watch this drama. if she's ok, then i'm gonna take yours.
Thank you, thank you so much for these insights, Lisya! *hugs*
After reading your post, I'm afraid this drama will remind you and your family of yourselves too much. And I'm afraid there would be a few things you or your family would not agree (of what Miho and Shinji thinks or says regarding deafness), and feel upset about it.
I, myself, keep wondering about Miho's last line in the final episode. Somehow it sounds a bit too much XD I can't say I can agree to that line. But just that one line though.
But at least, just remember this is JUST A DRAMA, ne ^_^ Pls take it lightly^^
And, please ganbatte, Lisya!!^o^ Although I think there might be a few "too much" factors in this drama, but I think this drama also has many factors that can comfort you and your family ^_^
and i like it so much.
i'm happy you started working on this.
coz my wish last time, if i could find the vcd,
i'm gonna watch with my family.
but after i read your reviews.. damn, i have to think 44 times again.
i wonder what my parents, my mom especially would feel if she watched this.
the story quite same with me and my young sister experienced day-to-day, in someway somehow. sometimes we felt lost, sometimes we became stronger with support from people around.
writing notes with pencil.. :) yeah. but we can't expect that always to be romantic thing. from my experience, people could be annoyed sometimes and wouldn't tolerate much because it took time to communicate especially when they're in the middle of urgency.
a difficulty of a deaf mother with normal kid.
we used to babysit our nephews... from experience, we have to be sharp using other senses [including sixth sense]. but sometimes, i've difficulty to hear the sounds of crying. or lost the sixth sense whether the baby gonna fall immediately in what kind of direction.
but compared to deaf mother with normal kid...
normal mother with deaf kid is much much more difficult.
taihen. really. i know because we always troubled our mom (since born i guess). normal mom has to deal the kid's disability, and other physical illness and symptoms. but most important is their emotional or psychological aspect. normal mom has to be very strong-heart and patient with this [even a brilliant but deaf kids always has their own tantrums and mood swings].
after deal with our inferiority and disorders, being guided to the right path.. then a marriage and building family are not easy matter for us. i think my mom already worried about this since long ago. like i said, even people know and understand our disability, not many could tolerate it for their whole life.
i guess only man who has a strong love and very strong patience would do. but that couldn't guaranteed his family-side support. so many normal, perfectly beautiful women out there, why needs to have the imperfect one here. moreover, certain people still think that deaf is a genetic disease which would effect their inheritances. i wonder if this World really has more hirofumi shinji.
[regarding miho cried in front of her mom & shinji's mother who asking for their break-up. miho said she was grateful she was born which she get opportunity to meet shinji.]
in my case, one night.... my mom was the one who kneeling in front of us. holding both our hands, my mom smiling in tears, asking our apologize for being a not so good mother, she wasn't healthy and had a weak body during pregnant us. but she's fight herself to deliver us. {emm, somehow this reminds me of upcoming nakama's Tsubaki Flowers story}. time to time, since few years back, my mom kept on apologizing just in case if she didn't understand us well or did something that makes us angry. i dunno why... but seems that she's preparing her 'farewell'. i guess she's worried us more if we couldn't be independent on ourselves, and have to depend on others.
somehow things like this makes me sad.
i mean in that drama, i'm sure that normal kid will grown up even just 5 or 6 years, kid will take a good care of her deaf mother. from what i see in real-life, that's happened to some people i know.
but in our case, it would be difficult for us to take care our normal parents. in whatever we do, how much efforts we put... they're still either worry or sad. and that's frustrated me so much. it's like everything become useless. and that's the beginning of the long internal conflicts and misunderstanding.
last time, when i had that incident, someone scolded me - how come u couldn't hear suspicious sounds. how come u couldn't sense the dangers going to come." .. i felt i was thrown into a big deep black hole. never ever in my life i would know that my disability could put me in a life-death situation.
:) taihen da na
anyway, if i hadn't been born..
i guess i wouldn't meet you. ^^
sorry for my long rants.
i will ask my mom first if she's interested to watch this drama.
if she's ok, then i'm gonna take yours.
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After reading your post, I'm afraid this drama will remind you and your family of yourselves too much. And I'm afraid there would be a few things you or your family would not agree (of what Miho and Shinji thinks or says regarding deafness), and feel upset about it.
I, myself, keep wondering about Miho's last line in the final episode. Somehow it sounds a bit too much XD I can't say I can agree to that line. But just that one line though.
But at least, just remember this is JUST A DRAMA, ne ^_^ Pls take it lightly^^
And, please ganbatte, Lisya!!^o^ Although I think there might be a few "too much" factors in this drama, but I think this drama also has many factors that can comfort you and your family ^_^
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