It is Saturday night and I have time to update. Why you ask? Simply because I feel like shit, cannot even leave my couch, so I cannot make it to the parties. On to other stuff
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No, I don't update a livejournal cause I only joined to talk to you. I have a lot going on in my life right now, and I hope things will settle down before I post here.
You put things in a funny way... "nobody should have to bother with me."
To me (I may be wrong), it sounds like you are extremely independent. I have always been the same way. It has been a source of pride for me, but I can't recommend it.
It's great to think independently, but it's vital to allow yourself to need others (not necessarily boys, but someone). Sooner or later, you will need someone to support you when you weaken, to reassure you when you doubt yourself, and to make you feel safe when you are afraid. We all experience weakness, doubt, and fear. Don't take it on alone. Don't deny your friends what they give you: the chance to help someone they care about who is in need. Sure, you can handle it alone for a while, but don't get used to it; it won't last. Each of us can conquer the world, but we can't do it alone. Lean on someone. It helps.
Re: Hi therexxlizziexxNovember 8 2005, 04:53:09 UTC
I was always wondering that. Well, if you ever need someone to chat with, I'm right here. I feel horrible that you read my posts and offer your advice, and I can do nothing in return. I hope your life does become less hectic so you do have time - even if it is just to relax.
I know what you mean about the independence. It seems that it is very hard for me to stray from it, even though I know it isn't the healthiest thing for myself.
There you go wanting to help someone else before yourself. That is a wonderful quality Liz, but you need to look out for Liz now and then. I will be fine... I just have to straighten out a couple of things.
Young people are fiercely independent sometimes when their parents teach them to be so. It can be a curse or a quality; it's up to you. Make up your own mind about what you believe, but find friends who give you the respect you deserve as a lovely young lady.
Nothing will make you happier in life than to reach out to someone and make them your friend. Everyone feels alone at times, Liz. Give your abundant support to people who deserve it. Obviously, that is your nature.
No, I don't update a livejournal cause I only joined to talk to you. I have a lot going on in my life right now, and I hope things will settle down before I post here.
You put things in a funny way... "nobody should have to bother with me."
To me (I may be wrong), it sounds like you are extremely independent. I have always been the same way. It has been a source of pride for me, but I can't recommend it.
It's great to think independently, but it's vital to allow yourself to need others (not necessarily boys, but someone). Sooner or later, you will need someone to support you when you weaken, to reassure you when you doubt yourself, and to make you feel safe when you are afraid. We all experience weakness, doubt, and fear. Don't take it on alone. Don't deny your friends what they give you: the chance to help someone they care about who is in need. Sure, you can handle it alone for a while, but don't get used to it; it won't last. Each of us can conquer the world, but we can't do it alone. Lean on someone. It helps.
People care, Liz. Honest.
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I know what you mean about the independence. It seems that it is very hard for me to stray from it, even though I know it isn't the healthiest thing for myself.
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Young people are fiercely independent sometimes when their parents teach them to be so. It can be a curse or a quality; it's up to you. Make up your own mind about what you believe, but find friends who give you the respect you deserve as a lovely young lady.
Nothing will make you happier in life than to reach out to someone and make them your friend. Everyone feels alone at times, Liz. Give your abundant support to people who deserve it. Obviously, that is your nature.
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I hope you are having a nice week
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