Feb 15, 2006 00:03
copied from seventh dagger bulliten:
this is the saddest and most fucked up thing i have read in a long time and was just now brought to our attention i expect every one of you who support bbp to pitch these guys a few dollars and every one who hass bbp in your screen name to donate ten put your money where your mouth is. repost hold a benifit show in your town do a fuckign bakesale whatever it takes we have to help out.
PLEASE REPOST THIS EVERYWHERE
I just found out some scumbag drunk driver killed my friend Joey a few days ago, he left behind a wife and young son. One of the realest dudes I've ever met, real solid, stand up guy. Nothing can bring him back, but anyone with more than half a heart consider throwing a few bucks to help his family out, you'd be doing something completely helpful to someone who truly needs it.
If anyone is willing to donate to help out Christina and Asher (Joey's wife and son) please send the money to this paypal account: CATKNUCKLES@YAHOO.COM
please read below. as you'll read, it's about my friend joey. please actually consider helping. okay, take care peoples.
Date: Feb 10, 2006 10:29 PM
Subject: Joey Struggle
Body: Body: A good friend of ours was just killed in a horrible car accident earlier this week. It was Joey Meszaros (aka Joey Struggle) who used to sing in the band 24th Solution. He was riding his bike home from work and a drunk driver in the middle of a police pursuit hit him. He left behind a wife and a 3 year old son. He didn't have life insurance. A bunch of people are in the process of setting up benefit shows for his wife and son, and a paypal account has been set up for donations.
We can't even imagine what his wife and family are feeling right now. He was 30 years old, life-long vegan straight-edge, practiced kung fu for 10 years, an avid environmentalist and most definitely the last person who deserved to be taken by a drunk driver. If you can help out with this in any way, we (and a lot of other people) would be indebted.
If anyone is willing to donate to help out Christina and Asher (Joey's wife and son) please send the money to this paypal account: CATKNUCKLES@YAHOO.COM
Thank you to all for any help you can give!!!
PLEASE REPOST ANY WHERE THAT PEOPLE WILL CARE!
Below is a statement from Christina
if you havent already heard, my husband joey was killed while riding his bike home from work early monday morning. to say the least i am devestated, confussed, freaking out, drepressed and at the same time worried about me and ashers future. i appreciate all the support i have received from my friends and family even though i know nothing will ever bring joey back to me or this world. lastnight was my first night that i had to go to bed knowing he wouldnt be there, it was one of the most difficult moments ever. knowing that i would not wake up the next day to see him sound alseep next to me with his arm slung around asher. i had just quit my job of almost 4 yrs on feb 3rd so i could spend more time w/ him and asher, now i find myself without a full time job, no way to pay the mortgage, 5 cats, a dog and a 3 yr old to care for. this is an overwhelming experience. i dont really know how to deal with it. ive never had to deal with a loved one this close to me dying, i never thought i would see my 30 yr old husband who was so full of life, ideas and love for myself and his son die. i know, everyone dies, it's part of life. i just didnt know it would be so soon. i figured id die before him from all the crappy food i eat and he'd live on to be 116 yrs old! now i face having to move on without him. all our dreams and plans are in peices and im not sure how to pick them up. i cried alot throughout the night, pressed my face into his jacket that still smells like him and just wanted to fall asleep and never wake up, wishing i could just go off and be with him where ever that may be. i wanted him to visit me in my dreams and tell me "things will be ok", but he never came. we had our arguments, we disagreed, i was always the naysayer, but still we loved eachother. we still love eachother. it feels like he is still here, just not in the same way as before. maybe as a spirit, a whisper in the wind outside, a thought in my head. i cant get him out of my head long enough to eat something or sleep yet i dont want him to go away, i miss him so much i cant ever described it in words. i cant even begin to try. i dont really know what to say except "i love you joey, then, now and forever". no matter which way the wind takes me in this life, and it is all so uncertain now, i will cherish the things he taught me, the conversations we had, the laughs we had,the love we shared, and the beautiful 3 yr old son that he adored every day. god, this is all so fucking surreal. i miss you joey.....
christina