Violation.....
so its been a while.. not too much had happened.. pretty much just working and spending my spare time with tim.. i go to langley once every other week and just visit family.. no friends.. Daniel came to visit me.. that was lots of fun.. he hasn't called me since though im kinda worried.. and by the time i remember to call him its too late.. sigh.. SO yesterday i lost my wallet on the bus.. talk about a pissoff.. and then this morning i wake up.. tim leaves i sit at my computer and five minutes later my landlord knocks on the inside door.. i tell him to come in and he accuses me of smoking inside and proceeds to tell me my boyfriend can't stay here anymore.. Yeah so tim spends a lot of time here but not ALL his time here.. he works from 10am to 10PM in chilliwack and doesnt get home until 11... so whenever i see him.. its late.. and so when we have days off we spend a lot of time together.. and its mostly here because well his place sucks.. SO my landlord (not to be racist but he is east indian by the way) seems to think he can control me and tell me who can or cant stay at my house where which i am paying rent to live.. in an illegal basement suite no less.. i dont see how he thinks he can get away with this.. no one was here this morning and he made me feel so violated and controlled.. and i couldnt completely stick up for myself because i was somewhat afraid.. he threatened me saying if this keeps happening we are out by the end of the month... tim doesnt live here.. he may visit me 5 nights in a row.. but hes not sleeping here every night.. he made me want to cry.. and made me feel SO uncomfortable.. im not really sure what to do.. he accused me.. didnt even AKS me if i was smoking inside he said you are smoking inside.. and i keep seeing your friend here.. he cant stay here anymore.. and i told him ive been quitting smoking.. last one i had was last night it was only a few puffs thats it.. not enough to make the smell from my hands/clothes seep out from under the tight door this morning.. (he said he smelled it this morn) and i had JUST woken up.. yadda yadda.. and so after i was finnished apologizing and saying he wont be comming around as much and explaining to him everything i could.. he kept questioning me.. and standing there just staring at me in silence when i am close to crying and im sure he could see it in my eyes.. i felt like total shit.. and he just stood there taking it all in as much as he could while his kids were waiting for him to go.. this is NOT right.. it makes me not want to live here.. im not sure what to do.. HELP!.. a landlord has no right to tell their tennants who can and cannot stay at their house.. unless they have been there every day for 2 weeks.. which he is NOT.. my mom said she is going to buy me a tennant book to read over so i know my rights as a tennant.. even though i am in an illegal suite.. blarbety blar... he makes me feel uncomfortable.. i feel like my privacy is being invaded.. i am in no way shape or form harming him his family or his house.. and he is making me feel like i am some sort of prisoner.. in a weird way.. OH by the way.. the door from our suite to the rest of the house is only one door and it only has one lock.. key entry on the door knob.. with the keyhole on our side.. meaning the little turn knobby is on their side.. meaning they can just walk right on in whenever they feel like it.. hell even his 5 year old son can come in any time he wants.. also making me feel VERY uncomfortable. So ive tied a string from the doorknob to the closet doorknob and im really hoping i dont find that string broken.