During the course of my abbreviated Winter Solstice Weekend, I was Reflecting upon various aspects of Mental Health.
One thing that I was pondering is how incredibly mentally sick people can be, and never, ever even think of going to a (head) Doctor. But if someone has a bit of congestion--which we all know will go away with plenty of rest,
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Wile generalities are vital, everyone is different. Though I do not expect you to share I am curious what the "BAD" is for you,
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I'm either still too sleepy, or I don't recall asking about "why"... I find that Theoretical "Why" questions often lead to avoiding the Pragmatic "How" questions, which must be breached before Change can be made.
That list you gave is a veritable "who's who" of Depressive Thoughts, which is neither news to me nor you ;-)
I am curious what the "BAD" is for you
"Bad" is a memetic placeholder I've used for several years, now. I've recently added the "The" to mock it (deflate its impact and power), because saying "The Bad" just sounds laughable to me. And Laughter is generally GoodTo me, "Bad" and "Good" are relative Dualistic terms. Honestly, I can't really "define" these terms, as they are like "pointers" toward things that I instinctively know. But if I had to put them into words (and thereby muddling the issue), I'd say that "Good" things are "things that I Desire", or my "Towards Values" as they say in NLP. "Bad" things are "things that hinder 'Good' things". Now, as I'm thinking you ( ... )
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Another "flaking out".....I know this issue as we discussed, but on the other end, that person is going through their own deally-o. Like the girl I am seeing.....she felt as if she was being neglected, when I really was having company and pl;umbing issues and buying a piano, and working, and so on. I was not being "flakey" I was doing what I needed to stay ALIVE as I see ALIVE. Again al perception based things and subject to relative interpretation.
Sticky these things aren't they. We can aknowledge them but we are incapable of changing so many of them. Stagnation and inner issues aside.
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Precisely! To try and de-Scribe them in any sort of a "Universally True(TM)" sense is a very common Thinking Error (to use Tx talk).
For instance "sucess". Sucess is measured in it's own way by everyone who has/does not have it.
The fact that these words are relative can be a strength, too. In NLP, they call it "Transformational Vocabulary", and it has to do with our relationship to Words. Specifically, it has to do with how you define words (most often unconsciously ( ... )
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