Sep 16, 2004 14:20
Meg, or as we affectionately call her Sue, has a boyfriend. Fortunately she revealed this tid bit nicely and like a championship NFL player I recovered the fumble and ran with it as if I knew it was going to happen, or more to my stylings I took a rastiera like the true capoeira I am and kept moving. You see I called her to hang out but had the alterior school work motive ready to go- I needed to copy a reading from the course packet which she knows I haven't purchased yet. The set up was excellent, I asked if she was free thursday since we had no class due to jewish holidays, she drops the news " Well I have to go out to dinner with my boyfriend and his family for his birthday" and quickly follow, "oh, I was hoping you would be around because I still haven't gotten the course packet, and I am afraid the school bookstore will be closed tomorrow, so I won't be able to get the packet before class on tuesday" She replies with a well I am not busy during the day so sure I could meet you on campus and you could copy the reading or whatever. I thank her, and urge her not to go out of her way, she insists it is cool and we leave with me planning to call her today(during the conversation tomorrow) early afternoon to arrange something. To my relief, and to the relief of possible discomfort, the school bookstore is open today so I left Sue a voice mail thanking her for her willingness to help me out but that it won't be necessary to meet unless she was dying for some company or an excuse to get out of the house. I haven't heard back from her, but no sweat. The problem with this story is as follows, or rather the thing to be learned: Ladies, is you have a man do not give your phone number to another man who obviously has schemes of some type of future with you, be it for one night or a life time. It was clear I had every intention of getting to know her better in a relationship/romantical sense and she had no problems giving me her number, she also had no problem hanging around and waiting for me after class, and having me walk her to her car, etc... all the while not disclosing her current attatchment to another penis. Now it is possible that she is in fact a trick ass ho and wants some good D on the side and that is why she gave me her number but a)I doubt it, who wants to use me for a piece of meat, before getting a taste? I mean seriously girls in the know want to wear me out, girls in the dark avoid me like the plague. b)If in fact she wants some D on the side, and expects me to deliver it, she should be out there with it. Not necessarily offering the facts about her current relationship but offering her desires for D, either honestly, straight up lying to me, or lying by omittance. In either case I don't want it, if it is already spoken for (it being a relationship, her, and the "it" most men reduce women to in the first place).
How is this good news? Well this frees me up to focus on Meredith, or as we affecionately call her surfer girl. I grow to like surfer girl more and more each time I see her. The bad news, she still seems to have her friendship, school chum eyes fixed heavily on me, not her I want to get him in my arms and my bed eyes. I will have to tread carefully with this one because I would hate to loose the existing classmate pally-pal thing we have going on. I think I know how to find out about the boyfriend thing without seeming like I am prying- I wil drop the "who do you go surfing with question?" hopefully get the with my boyfriend response, or with all my girlfriends to which I can counter with "What is it an all girls club? No boy friends allowed?" Then I should get to the heart of things without seeming too interested or blatant with my questioning. Them from there I just need to find a reason or occasion to ask for her company outside of school setting- maybe a band playing or something?
In Julia news, I think she wants it, and she lives on campus so it could be in house scoring between classes but I doubt that is how she wants it, and it really isn't what I want either but if it becomes more availible I just might jump up and down on it a few times (how crass is that!!).
Just for your entertainment, as this line of ladies begins to die down I will have to force myself to find more ladies to write about as I know that is what you, my audience, finds most interesting. The excitement of me possibly getting laid and finding a girl to call my own, the comedic pitfulls I fall into in the pursuit of fore mentioned, and teh crazies I seem to discover in the process. Read in peace....