ugh bad night

[xdancinfoolx]

ok so last night i went to luis's award ceremony he looked sooo cute....we r just friends now but i still love him he's such a good friend i could never hurt him....anyway i went to the ceremony wit my mom n then after that paul took me to my dads house so then i call my mom n im like hi what cha doin n shes like oh think of luis so im like ok well

Comments

[burningletter88]

Honey, first off I'm sorry you're dealing with this. Stress from parents is so unneccessary and no fun at all....

however, i think I know why your moms doing it. It could be a number of reasons. It could be shes jealous of the time your spending at your fathers and misses you, so she tries to make you feel bad, hoping that maybe you wont go there any more. Two shes fighting with paul, which is some stress...and she really doesnt have anyone else to take it out on other than you. I'm not justifying her actions by any means, but do understand that the only reason shes treating you this way is because of the stuff going on in her life. its not right, and I'm sorry your so hurt by it, but try to brush it off. When she says things like that, just agree with her, or ignore her...dont bite back. Then once she cools off, maybe you can point out that you didnt exactly appreciate the things she said.I dont know how your mom responds to things, so telling her how you feel might not be the best idea, but if shes the type who will listen...whats stopping you from saying "Mom, what you said hurt me, and its not fair that your going to make me stop doing something that could potentially help me in the future."

As for your sister, well...shes always drama, and i feel even worse that your dealing with HER. Maybe once she pops out that baby, she'll be too tired to talk. ♥

[xdancinfoolx]

my moms the type so will slap u or kick u out if u talk bak so u have no choice but to listen take it how it is n shut up about it....thats how its always been.....

[burningletter88]

And I know how that is better than anyone else. So hun, as much as it sucks, just smile and bare it, and know that you always have friends who will support you.

[xdancinfoolx]

this is y i love u steph....u kno just what to say to keep me strong

[hotvanillachick]

ugh...brianna is a dirty rotten whore, i just hope her baby is nicer than she was!
and as for your momma....you and me...one year. boston.
fuck community college.
fuck pc.
you and i are rooming together in boston.
if you want, you could wait a year and we'd both be freshman...i dont care...i just want you to be my roomie!!
and im really serious about it...we should start looking at places near the campus.
i could even chip in for rent the first year and i could live there on the weekends!!!
coolio yo!!!
please call me ... i need to know that you haven't gone overboard and shot yourself...or...your family.
loooove you more than peanut-butter and fluff!!
-mj