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Mar 25, 2011 15:04

So I do the radical faerie thing, and have always been a big proponent of gender inclusiveness at our gatherings especially in light of how many faeries are neither men nor women.

I state such, and here's what I get back from a hateful old cooter who dares call himself my elder:

"Twenty years came women and hetero people who claimed the name faerie. I never gave it to them, they just claimed it. Claiming a name does (not make you part of my physically intimate inner circle. At that point, the sexual foundation of my experience as a gay man was run over and killed. I don't wish to circle with women and children, or be in a physically intimate space with them as I am with my brothers. I do not wish to wake up and smell your private parts! At pangender gatherings the anti-male-male-sexual and the hetero-normative has made a comeback."

Excuse me? Women on the land fucked up your sexual identity? I don't recall anyone asking you to have sex with them! You don't want woman on the land because you don't want to smell pussy? Uh... so don't eat any? Really. Nobody's forcing you to sleep with people you don't want to sleep with. Boiling women down to vagina is you being a dick, and anti- the subject/SUBJECT consciousness you claim to practice.

In short: Fuck you.

In long: Fuck your fear, fuck your hate, fuck your misogyny, fuck the internalized homophobia that makes you afraid to express yourself in people you don't want to sex up, fuck the fact you think I ought to conform to your bullshit, and especially fuck you for not coming to gathering for 20 years and still thinking you have a place to tell us how to have them.
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