Perhaps aproaching it as not being angry at him so much for what he said (even if you are) but in the way he expressed them. That if he actually beleives or thinks those things about you or Lukas, than it should be rationally discussed. Then perhaps ask him if he thinks that his behvior was offensive. Personally, I always use the "how would you feel" approach. I.E. How would you react or being feeling if I did something like that to you or your friends? Maybe just try not confronting him but "resolving" the issue if that makes sense. Is not not acceptable for you to just tell him in a calm and rational way that you are still disturbed by what happened the other night?
I'm imagining that you already have something in mind that you're toying with, what do you have in mind and what do you imagine his reaction being during conversation?
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Personally, I always use the "how would you feel" approach. I.E. How would you react or being feeling if I did something like that to you or your friends?
Maybe just try not confronting him but "resolving" the issue if that makes sense. Is not not acceptable for you to just tell him in a calm and rational way that you are still disturbed by what happened the other night?
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