The gym, boys, and God

Mar 29, 2007 20:40

New classes have been pretty demanding, so i've been going ot the gym to relieve stress. Tonight, I had two hours of "Quick! What do i do for fun!" So i wanted to make the most of it. When i came home, my floormates's boyfriend was over arranging a suprise bouquet of roses for her. I thougth that was so sweet, and I told him so. It made me smile. ( Read more... )

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funny conclusion supergeekylee March 31 2007, 07:36:52 UTC
OK, I guess I have to say something about this from a guy's point of view, since most of the replies are from girls. Most of us are not jerks. I think in fact there are quiet of lot of us are very sensitive. I go to the gym twice or three times a week and want to release my stress from my research. Every time when I am at the gym running or lifting, I found it very attractive and sexy for a girl to work out. Maybe I don't see that many woman in the basement. Every time when I build up enough courage to approach a girl, the girl start taking off. Sometimes I am even too shy to look at them, because I don't want them to think I am some kind of crazy guy looking at them. It was this gender role for guys to appraoch girls makes me uncomfortable. I am a very shy guy and could not approach woman whom I don't relate to. Sometimes I wish a girl will approach me instead. So back to your incident, I guess 90% that this guy is shy. One more thing to keep in mind that, for most man above 25, we are looking for good personality with ok look. It is the woman maturity that attractive most man. No one wants to have a girlfriend who is a bitch to them. Believe or not, when I was 22, I dated a very attractive girl, but she was totally a bitch to me. Our relationship lasted for almost five years, the reason was because I was too young to consider how much I had to put up with her. So be positive, I think you have a very good and attractive personality and you may have a lot to offer.

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