Kink, connections and stupid people.
As usual I had the boys here this weekend and we went to the fur meet in Round rock as well. Saturday evening the pup gets an IM from a fur that went to the meet who thinks he needs to play fucking boy scout. "Hey man that guy is all wrong for you and I'm sure your going to be hurt if you involve yourself with him." There's more from this guy like that to my boy and the idiocy of it amuses me greatly. I offered to let that fur spend the weekend with us so he could learn what he was talking about w/o sounding stupid but he declined to be educated and instead likes being clueless. I really had expected more from furs than to have people attack my relationships, play the role of zealot and then run away. If your going to attack some thing you should at least have some vague idea WTF your talking about and he doesn't. The fur in question in fact has never spoken with myself or any of the others that have spent time with me to gain any useful information about what is going on. He simply would rather crusade from his pulpit of ignorance on what he thinks is going on with no factual backing. To make this funnier he's told both my pets that others feel the same way he does but he can't name them. Funny, he knows them well enough to know how he says they feel but he doesn't know their names ? Seems the submissiveness of my pets to me makes some uncomfortable but what the fools fail to understand is they haven't seen any thing at a meet that I have mandated. The boys are doing what makes them happy and showing they are mine in each of thier own ways. The only thing that was my doing was them wearing leashes on 2 nights and since then the pup has often brought his any way or worn his cuffs by his own choice. There's nothing being forced on either of my boys in any way and I support what ever choices they make as it pertains to the relationship. In fact in a traditional D/S bondage relationship or as a dog/puppy to trainer relationship the Dom locks on a collar and cuffs and keeps the key. Only the dominant partner has the say about how things happen even if it's by mutual consent. In this case the boys have keys to every thing they wear and they each decide for themselves what level of submission they are going to show me day to day. And for as much a furvert as I am and the kinks I have I've not mounted either of them or made an effort to do so. They are being given the freedom to choose if that happens and the right isn't being taken from them. Further any of my pets can leave at any time with no repercussions from me and with an open door to return if they find I best suit their needs. If you read this now and your not in a relationship where your being respected for who you are and excepted then shouldn't you be ?