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[wolfe_girl87]

Lets say you have a friend; we will call her Jane (guys in this situation change all the shes to hes etc and call the friend John).  We are friend with Jane and her boyfriend John.  You have dinner with them, invite them to things, and joke around as friends do.  But Jane keeps doing little things that make you think and feel she doesn’t value your

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[funwithzippers]

I would ask her if she values the friendship. I would also tell her that if she does value the friendship then she should stop blowing you off and acting rude. She clearly has no manners whatsoever.

If she continues to act this way I would suggest cutting her out of your life (harsh I know). I don't tend to surround myself with rude/ungrateful people so thats what I would do.

Love you doll.

(btw if you didn't already know this is Jordann)

[dancingguy]

Yes, yes, and yes!

"Hi Jane. I do not feel that you treat me like a friend. I don't want to talk about the past, I want to talk about the future.

1: The next time I have to hunt you down to find out that you don't actually need a ride from me, is the last time you get a ride from me. I don't mind giving you a ride. I hate being treated as if I'm unimportant.

2: You seem to throw a lot of parties. When will you be inviting me to them?

3: Please don't talk about me behind my back."

Hugs.

[scroby]

He was trying to have a 3-some? Is that what I'm getting from this?

[missmorte]

communicate your feelings to said person.

[palefemme]

You have a car? I guess I thought you got rides to most events from other people.
Other than that, I think Miss Morte is right - you may just have to tell her that she is being impolite, at the least.

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[spurious_logic]

Talk to them. Explain your feelings. Offer a solution (what would make you feel better about them/the friendship). Watch to see if they are trying. Go from there.

Yeah, I know. Sounds easy, but unless you enjoy confrontation, it sucks.