I haven't posted in awhile.
Well, in the last couple weeks:
- I went home for my brothers wedding. I know, my brothers wedding? Who would have thought the day would come? Believe it or not, I actually cried tears of joy for him. :)
- I also worked Coachella again this year. Pictures can be found here:
Myspace Prince did an amazing cover of Radioheads Creep:
Portishead was also amazing... I posted their vid on
youtube - I also posted a fun blog on the LA dating scene, which i'll post behind the cut, but you can also read it on my
Myspace Other than all that, I've just been super busy with school and work. My eyes are constantly on fire due to the lack of sleep I get. And apparently I can't make enough time for some friends, so they insist on getting mad at me about it. Sorry, but deal with it. My time is limited, and I'll choose to spend it with whom I'd like to. Unfortunately, that may not be you 100% of the time. This doesn't make me a bad person. Just someone who is getting their shit together and their priorities straight. Partying isn't my cup of tea much anymore. Don't say I didn't warn you that this was going to happen.
On that note, back to work.. see the blog after the cut.
The LA Dating scene is an effing joke. No, really. I've never "not dated" someone so long, except in LA ("not dated" someone for six months once). Seems everyone wants the benefits that come with a relationship; the company, the security, the sex, the cuddling, the comfort, but they don't want the title or the feeling like they're commited. Nobody wants to be tied down. They want their options open.
I say nay. It's the easy way out. Less effort on their part. A society of lazy fucks.
Seems in my experience these days that most boys are pretty sleezy. So if you take the chance and decide to sleep with them, you're most likely sleeping with half of LA/Orange county. You're best bet is to hold off as long as possible. It's not going to make them any cleaner, and most likely they're already sleeping with someone else anyway, but at least you aren't just like every other skeezy girl out there. And believe me, there are a lot of them. It's not a party w/o a hat, just remember that.
Why are all boys so scared of being in a relationship dating? I understand, we all have busy schedules (if anyone knows busy, it's me), but no matter how busy I am, I still always find time for someone when I'm genuinely interested in them. And yes, we've all had our hearts broken. We all have walls, so high they practically reach the clouds. Everyone is in the same boat as you. Same story, just different people. And don't forget to mention the crazies.. I think we've all been in that situation before. But if you meet someone and you two just click. The chemistry is all there, why refrain?
I'm not basing this information on just my experiences alone, but also what I hear from my guy friends. No one wants a relationship. And seeing how Long Beach is full of hussies, they can pretty much continue getting what they want w/o the commitment.
Chivalry is dead.. and so are all the nice boys.