I'm going to have to get out of the habit of giving romantic advice to folks. From my experiences, they're not really interested in what you have to say. They basically want you to tell them that they're right and for you to listen to them. I realize I suck at the latter part. I always want to help them solve the problem. I really can't deal ( Read more... )

This is one of the many reasons I hate conversations about interracial relationships ( Read more... )

A lot of folks' love/sex problems could be alleviated if not solved if they'd just figure out what they REALLY want and own up to it instead of frontin' and trying to be something they're not.

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