Been back in Singapore for almost two weeks now. Could have said I enjoyed myself with friends I realise mean more to me than I thought... and vice versa. All part of growing up when you start to learn to differentiate between 'passing phase' friends and long term true friends.
Anyhow... the best thing is to catch up with my polytechnic friends, the first three straight people I came out to - Ferlicia, Xuefen and Shuting. I had so much fun at the first dinner that I told myself I had to meet them the second time before heading back.
A test I was asked to take...
The Playboy
Random Gentle Sex Master (RGSMm)
Clean. Smooth. Successful. You're The Playboy.
You're spontaneous, and your energy is highly contagious. Guys therefore find you fun to be around, and girls find you compelling. You have lots of sex, and you manage it all without seeming cheap or being hurtful. Well done. You probably know karate, too.
Your exact opposite:
The Mixed Messenger
Deliberate Brutal Love Dreamer It's obvious to us, and probably everyone else, that you're after physical rather than emotional relationships, but you're straight up with potential partners. And if a guy you want isn't into something casual, it's no big deal. You move on. BEFORE sleeping with him. Usually. At least you try to. Such control is rare.
If you're feeling unfulfilled, maybe you should raise your standards. New conquests will only be satisfying if there's a possibility of rejection.
ALWAYS AVOID: The Mixed Messenger
CONSIDER: The Bachelor, The Poolboy
*** Although I'm labelled a Playboy in the test you asked me to take, you know I'm different with you BKM!