Just a moment before I call it a night...
Seeing how the world is a big place I'm going to go ahead and assume that I'm not the only one who feels this way:
You meet someone or maybe you've known them for a while and they get to know you better (whatever the occasion). And then they start to get really interested in you and your every day life and your hobbies and whatnot, they're real friendly all the time, making compliments or even going all the way and buy you (little) presents. They go to great lengths to be helpful.
I try to be optimistic in these cases. Maybe they just want to be friends. Which would be great! I mean, I don't want presents and compliments make me a bit uncomfortable when I think I don't quite deserve them, and I might need my space every now and then when the person in question would rather get closer, but hey. Making friends is awesome!
Thing is, sometimes I get the feeling that someone wants more than that, that they're in love with me or something. Is that how you do it? Keep hinting and throwing around signals, hoping that the object of your love will catch on and figure out they've fallen for you, too? I hate that. Because I'm not falling, I'm just waiting for the inevitable comclusion where they tell you they love you and then you can finally tell them 'no', ending the awkward situation.
Then I try not to see them so much for a while.
That's usually not what the other party wants, but from what I've gathered it makes things easier.
I hate it when people fall in love with me.
It's never happened to me personally, meaning I'venever been in love with anyone, and I'm sorry if i'm being rude sometimes; it's probably not intentional. I don't want to hurt anyone, but I don't love anyone either. =/
I wish people would just tell me without dragging things out. I just want it out if the way so we can go back to being friends.
You meet someone or maybe you've known them for a while and they get to know you better (whatever the occasion). And then they start to get really interested in you and your every day life and your hobbies and whatnot, they're real friendly all the time, making compliments or even going all the way and buy you (little) presents. They go to great lengths to be helpful.
I try to be optimistic in these cases. Maybe they just want to be friends. Which would be great! I mean, I don't want presents and compliments make me a bit uncomfortable when I think I don't quite deserve them, and I might need my space every now and then when the person in question would rather get closer, but hey. Making friends is awesome!
Thing is, sometimes I get the feeling that someone wants more than that, that they're in love with me or something. Is that how you do it? Keep hinting and throwing around signals, hoping that the object of your love will catch on and figure out they've fallen for you, too? I hate that. Because I'm not falling, I'm just waiting for the inevitable comclusion where they tell you they love you and then you can finally tell them 'no', ending the awkward situation.
Then I try not to see them so much for a while.
That's usually not what the other party wants, but from what I've gathered it makes things easier.
I hate it when people fall in love with me.
It's never happened to me personally, meaning I'venever been in love with anyone, and I'm sorry if i'm being rude sometimes; it's probably not intentional. I don't want to hurt anyone, but I don't love anyone either. =/
I wish people would just tell me without dragging things out. I just want it out if the way so we can go back to being friends.