I mean... i think you're not overreacting at all- and i'm serious. These are big issues. And i'm glad you're thinking about them now- because when money is tight, or things aren't going your way... a stressful marriage will get even worse if you fight over those things.
It sounds like you have very valid points, and the only way you'll get some answers is if you talk to him about them.
Explain how you feel about the vegas thing. Tell him it means a lot to you and your family if you get married the way you want. Its a big deal- its your day. Not his. the bride is supposed to have what she wants. Not have the groom pick everything you know?
And i personally would HATE working 2 jobs- and this same issue is one of the major issues i had with steve. He was a manager at petsmart. come on! he was smart but just didn't want to go to school & couldn't afford it. But didn't like his job at all. And i could never have stayed long term with someone like that.
You need to voice your concern with him because this is going to be your life too. Things are shared. Joined everything. Money. Problems. Everything. You need to talk about these things before the big day. They are very important!
I mean... i think you're not overreacting at all- and i'm serious. These are big issues. And i'm glad you're thinking about them now- because when money is tight, or things aren't going your way... a stressful marriage will get even worse if you fight over those things.
It sounds like you have very valid points, and the only way you'll get some answers is if you talk to him about them.
Explain how you feel about the vegas thing. Tell him it means a lot to you and your family if you get married the way you want. Its a big deal- its your day. Not his. the bride is supposed to have what she wants. Not have the groom pick everything you know?
And i personally would HATE working 2 jobs- and this same issue is one of the major issues i had with steve. He was a manager at petsmart. come on! he was smart but just didn't want to go to school & couldn't afford it. But didn't like his job at all. And i could never have stayed long term with someone like that.
You need to voice your concern with him because this is going to be your life too. Things are shared. Joined everything. Money. Problems. Everything. You need to talk about these things before the big day. They are very important!
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