RANT

[wiggyjen]

There's a bra company here in Australia called Hestia & it allegedly stands for Holds Every Size T*t In Australia - which I can categorically assure is utter bollocks. I'm an 18G and they don't come anywhere close to stocking bras in that size

Comments

[lyrian]

Oh, honey, you so need to move out of that house.
That woman has serious issues. I thought that when I first saw her.
And (she should realise this) that losing weight from your breasts doesn't happen overnight and in great big obvious quantities.
It's not like muscle or just plain fat. There are a lot of other things that have to shrink too and this takes time.

Anyone under a C-cup doesn't understand this. Why do you think you don't see many women with big breasts at the gym?? Because, like you said! It *hurts*. Not to mention there's nothing worse than a pair of boobs that hit you in the eye when you're running!

I know I'm only a DD but I get where you're coming from.
If she wants to bitch and moan, just ignore her. If she's that pathetic to try and take it all out on you, ignore her. And no matter what, she's still your personal trainer and it was incredibly unprofessional of her to insult you like that. Even if it was 'off-duty'.

*HUGS*
Unprofessional bitch.

[wiggyjen]

I know... I can't wait for my twelve months to be up *taps foot impatiently* If was just one or two things I'm sure I'd find a way to cope but there's this; she does NOTHING around the house apart from cook the occasional meal; she doesn't really pull her weight financially (she FORGOT to pay her half of last month's phone bills *snarl*). The finacial this is particularly getting to me. I'm going to try & talk to her over the weekend, it's just not good enough that our account is CONSTANTLY in debit & that she's not paying her share

[lyrian]

Honey, see if Jo can put you up for a few days.
Get out of the house and get some perspective. Get away from the problem till you can bare to look at it. It'll be difficult but at least you'll be able to get away from her.
You need some time for yourself.
I'm sure if you ask around, there'll be someone who doens't mind you bunking on their couch for a few nights.

[wiggyjen]

*shakes head* Jo's got enough on her plate at the moment & to be honest I'm trying to keep a little distance there so I'm not getting sucked into her melodramas too. Mine are proving enough of a challenge at the moment... I know that's a terribly selfish thing to say but she doesn't repay the favour when I need her so I can't be her everything at the moment

[lyrian]

No baby, you're not being ridiculous. It's the flatmate's job to pay their way and she's not pulling her weight. Just because she's freelance does mean she gets a free ride. She has responsibilities and she's not holding up her end. No wonder you're getting snowed under

[wiggyjen]

You're absolutely right... God I hate being me at times I really do... I need to harden up *pulls face* I wanted to talk to her last night after I got off the phone with Kate but she was in a foul mood so I just cleaned the kitchen & went to bed.

I'm thinking Sunday night is going to be the night 'cause I'm out tonight & tomorrow night but that gives me all day Saturday (well more or less) to prepare my 'arguement' as it were.

Wish me luck...