it's late and i'm thinking... never a good idea
I am trying to learn how to be able to not worry about losing people from my life.
I don't have a problem with people not being in my future, I just look back and that is what hurts.
But maybe I should just see it as something that was good while it lasted, and moving on is inevitable.
I also always think things are all or nothing. Either that person is extremely important to my life or they mean nothing. In reality though, that's not how these things work.
My goal is to be able to look at old pictures and not feel sad about not having that person in my life anymore, but rather feel happy about that captured moment.
I don't have a problem with people not being in my future, I just look back and that is what hurts.
But maybe I should just see it as something that was good while it lasted, and moving on is inevitable.
I also always think things are all or nothing. Either that person is extremely important to my life or they mean nothing. In reality though, that's not how these things work.
My goal is to be able to look at old pictures and not feel sad about not having that person in my life anymore, but rather feel happy about that captured moment.