been a while, eh?
well...i've been thinking lately about what i want in a guy.
here's a list.
MUST BE:
funny. creative. witty. intelligent. original. athletic. a softball fan.
MUST NOT BE:
clingy. cocky. narcissistic. too preppy. a druggie. a big drinker. a smoker.
WOULD BE NICE IF HE WAS:
artsy. musical.
WOULD BE NICE TO HAVE:
blue eyes. height. dark hair. a nice smile.
he can't try to fit in with the norm. i want a guy who's not afraid to be different. i want a guy who respects how independent i am. a guy who knows i don't get giddy, but will try his hardest to make me be, if only once, for a few seconds. i need a guy who could make me laugh at the drop of a hat. i want a guy who will understand how stressful college sports are...and realize that i can't be around at any time he needs me. if i had to work late in the art lab...he would sit next to me. when i came home from a softball game, he wouldn't care how dirty i was, i would still get a big hug. when softball has me down, and i'm working sooo hard everyday...he would LOVE to give me back rubs. aww. i need a guy who will remember all my favorites, no matter how insignificant...favorite restaurant, favorite color, favorite ice cream, favorite scent, favorite movie. i want a guy who will call me out when i say something completely retarded, but not make me feel dumb about it or laugh at me, he'll laugh with me. how about a guy that will understand that girls are bitches for no apparent reason some days...deal with it. we'll be better tomorrow...maybe...it may have to be the day after that. i want a guy who, if he doesn't like my kind of music, will still listen to it to make me happy. (although, it would be nice if he did like my kind of music) i want a guy who will let me be pissed off at life sometimes, and won't try to cheer me up the WHOLE time...sometimes i just want to be mad. i want a guy who will "argue" with me...and by argue i mean debate...because everyone knows how much i love to talk and how opinionated i am. i want someone who will challenge me.
but most of all...dammit...i just want a guy who'll be there for me. and i hate sounding so girly, but...i just can't help myself.
here's to searching.
-madison
here's a list.
MUST BE:
funny. creative. witty. intelligent. original. athletic. a softball fan.
MUST NOT BE:
clingy. cocky. narcissistic. too preppy. a druggie. a big drinker. a smoker.
WOULD BE NICE IF HE WAS:
artsy. musical.
WOULD BE NICE TO HAVE:
blue eyes. height. dark hair. a nice smile.
he can't try to fit in with the norm. i want a guy who's not afraid to be different. i want a guy who respects how independent i am. a guy who knows i don't get giddy, but will try his hardest to make me be, if only once, for a few seconds. i need a guy who could make me laugh at the drop of a hat. i want a guy who will understand how stressful college sports are...and realize that i can't be around at any time he needs me. if i had to work late in the art lab...he would sit next to me. when i came home from a softball game, he wouldn't care how dirty i was, i would still get a big hug. when softball has me down, and i'm working sooo hard everyday...he would LOVE to give me back rubs. aww. i need a guy who will remember all my favorites, no matter how insignificant...favorite restaurant, favorite color, favorite ice cream, favorite scent, favorite movie. i want a guy who will call me out when i say something completely retarded, but not make me feel dumb about it or laugh at me, he'll laugh with me. how about a guy that will understand that girls are bitches for no apparent reason some days...deal with it. we'll be better tomorrow...maybe...it may have to be the day after that. i want a guy who, if he doesn't like my kind of music, will still listen to it to make me happy. (although, it would be nice if he did like my kind of music) i want a guy who will let me be pissed off at life sometimes, and won't try to cheer me up the WHOLE time...sometimes i just want to be mad. i want a guy who will "argue" with me...and by argue i mean debate...because everyone knows how much i love to talk and how opinionated i am. i want someone who will challenge me.
but most of all...dammit...i just want a guy who'll be there for me. and i hate sounding so girly, but...i just can't help myself.
here's to searching.
-madison