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[wholivedagain]

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[adamantined]

I think maybe you should just... sit down and talk it out. Don't lose your temper, don't be a brat, and lay it out on the table. There's probably stuff from her perspective that you aren't even picking up on that she needs to talk about, too. Just... whatever you do, don't let it fester until you aren't really speaking ever again or anymore at all.

You need to just go up to her, say that you want to talk, and then talk about it. You've all been friends for so long, and I know she wants to make up with you, too. I feel like that's a good enough indication to just get stuff out and said.

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[wholivedagain]

We've been talking, though.

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[adamantined]

Talking is different from talking.

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[wholivedagain]

Oh, no, I think we've done a lot of talking.

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[adamantined]

Have you done it in a sit down and civilized way that doesn't end up with someone crying or yelling?

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[wholivedagain]

Seeing as it's always happened over this bloody network-no.

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[adamantined]

That's my suggestion.

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[wholivedagain]

Right. Someone suggested a mediator, too, but I don't know about that.

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[adamantined]

I think a mediator's a good idea in theory, but that's just one more person that's going to stop you from saying how you feel. Do you think Ron would really take someone's side?

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[wholivedagain]

I don't think he would, but he wouldn't know why we're keeping on like this.

Not that Ron and Hermione haven't had their share of rows like this.

Or me and Ron, really.

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[adamantined]

Everyone has fights. Especially best friends. I think if you don't then it's just a testimony to the fact that you aren't really best friends. You just need to work through it.