If anyone wants to know
My dad is gone. Forever. Autopsy results will be in Friday or Saturday to tell us the exact cause of death, but we all know what it was anyways. My fathers been an alcoholic for my entire life and then some. Now everyone knows why I am so against the alcohol and drugs and all that shit. But yeah, as I know it.. he was at my ex step mothers place..
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Now, let me teach you about a little thing called "common courtesy." It's really quite simple. Just about everyone uses it. It's even considered a standard among people. When you're at someone elses house you treat them, their family, and their friends with respect unless stated otherwise, right? Same things go with LiveJournals. This is Jaycie's HOME and you are her GUEST. Treat she and her friends with respect.
But okay, your choice not to be courteous, but to be so blindly opinionated is another thing entirely. One of the biggest problems you face right now is that you assume that you are always right, even though you can't completely comprehend what everyone is saying. The point of the matter wasn't that Jaycie just hates Di, whoever that is, it was that she is very distraught and met a dead end when trying to seek condolance. It's not Jaycie's fault that Di pissed her off. It's not Jaycie's fault that Di would not help her. Stop trying to defend Di, it just doesn't make any sense without Di stating some case of her own.
But really, it's bad enough that you try to upset Jaycie in her own post, but to then to tell her that one of her close friends is manipulating her without any evidence? That's not a very good tactic. Besides, what does it matter to you whether or not Kalley did or can comfort Jaycie? It's not like the service will be open to you in the near future. Nor do I see you desperately trying to help Jaycie yourself, so don't complain.
As for what you said about Kalley, that's a very bold move. You assume that you know everything about her just because you've read her LiveJournal. You think you understand how she works because you've read what she intentionally shares with others. You judge her because she's a perfectionist with her typing at times? Has it not occurred to you that she might be a little more complex than that? That she might actually be feeling pain and anguish, might actually be hating parts of herself, might actually be fighting an internal struggle, and might actually being trying to improve herself rather than just begging for attention?
No, of course not. You're too young. You haven't even known Kalley long enough to understand half of what goes on in her mind. Sure, once in a while she may play on the pity of others, but everyone does now and again. Kalley is a wonderful person when you get to know her, when you get past the almost childish demeanor, and that's a whole lot more than I can say for you.
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-i didn't really care to defend di atm. i think you also got the wrong impression. anyways, anyone that has read any of her entries before will see that they always revolve around her hating di. even now, with her father's death, it is all she can concentrate on. she can't pull herself away from that hate even in this situation. it's kind of disgusting.
-kalley has manipulated her before. she used di tho. and uhm by the way kalley has manipulated many, many people. heh. if you've known her for 2 seconds you'd know this, but no one seems to care, so neither do i.
-i used to know kalley, i used to talk to her, i used to talk to all the people she knew online (which was practically her entire life, or at least that is what she would say). her fighting an internal struggle is absolute bull shit. it's really easy to look past what she does, but it doesn't matter! why are you telling me this when i obviously do not care!
-and of course, you judge me based on age. you don't even know my age.
i am going to assume you just met kalley.
i knew her about 3 years ago was it? no i think it was 4. and i was friends with her for about 2 years. i remained friends with all the people she knew, and they'd CONSTANTLY talk to me behind her back, telling me all the shit she pulls.
ask her if she remembers toby. that's how i found out about her giving head so some guy just so she could get weed. she was somewhat in love with him etc etc. there are many, many others... oh boy. but it doesn't matter!!!!! have a good life. bye!
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