I can see where you're both coming from, and I can see that they deserve PITY in the pathetic sense. You've even spoken out about how you hate receiving pity, so think of it in that sense, not with the connotation of caring. Like "I feel sorry for you because your life is so fucking meaningless that you think this is fun to do to me." I see how that's applicable.
I'm also vehemently against bullying and I think they're all douchebags, and if I had the opportunity to brutally, emotionally hurt these two I really would go for it, because they deserve it. Fuck them! I'm so glad you were able to embarrass them--they'll probably take their fucking heads out of their asses and think first next time they have an opportunity to harass someone.
I think you wrote a great message, and sending it is up to you, but I don't think he said that to offend or belittle your experience. Perhaps he was just musing on the subject? I mean, I don't know the guy, so I can't say. You are not always obligated to be the bigger person, to forgive idiots, to not get defensive over comments like this--it is not a position you asked to be in--but I'm just wondering about the outcome of saying this to him. Also, the outcome of saying this personally vs. posting it to the thread so that everyone sees. Though I do also see that posting it for everyone will get a lot of sappy comments, I don't know if you want that, either. So yeah. What I'm saying is, I think it's a great message, and as to whether or not to send it, just take a moment and think about what it will accomplish and if it's something you want.
Whatever, though, fuck bullies!!
So amazing.
Anyway, Caseeeeeeeeey. I love you and I worry about you. ♥ I'm really upset about everything that's happening to you and it blows. You've been so strong and I'm so proud of you. Keep fighting.
Yeah. My problem with Fred is that he enjoys playing the devil's advocate and riling people up, and it's impossible to tell when he sincerely means something and when he's being a passive aggressive asshole.
If I do send the message I would do it privately. I don't want to start drama on my facebook and have everyone who commented get spammed by the emails.
Maybe at the end say something like "I am aware that you occasionally play devil's advocate for the sake of seeing both sides of a situation or argument. If that is what this is, I am going to be completely honest: I do not appreciate having my natural reactions questioned at this point, especially by someone who does not understand what my reactions are."
I'm also vehemently against bullying and I think they're all douchebags, and if I had the opportunity to brutally, emotionally hurt these two I really would go for it, because they deserve it. Fuck them! I'm so glad you were able to embarrass them--they'll probably take their fucking heads out of their asses and think first next time they have an opportunity to harass someone.
I think you wrote a great message, and sending it is up to you, but I don't think he said that to offend or belittle your experience. Perhaps he was just musing on the subject? I mean, I don't know the guy, so I can't say. You are not always obligated to be the bigger person, to forgive idiots, to not get defensive over comments like this--it is not a position you asked to be in--but I'm just wondering about the outcome of saying this to him. Also, the outcome of saying this personally vs. posting it to the thread so that everyone sees. Though I do also see that posting it for everyone will get a lot of sappy comments, I don't know if you want that, either. So yeah. What I'm saying is, I think it's a great message, and as to whether or not to send it, just take a moment and think about what it will accomplish and if it's something you want.
Whatever, though, fuck bullies!!
So amazing.
Anyway, Caseeeeeeeeey. I love you and I worry about you. ♥ I'm really upset about everything that's happening to you and it blows. You've been so strong and I'm so proud of you. Keep fighting.
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If I do send the message I would do it privately. I don't want to start drama on my facebook and have everyone who commented get spammed by the emails.
*hugs* You're the best.
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