Does it have to be this hard?

[waterpuppet]

 OMG you know I am on this emotional roller coaster and I have no fucking idea how to get off. I have been in a relationship with this woman for over 12 years, of which we have been married 8 years this past Valentines. We are getting a divorce and everything is going to shit. You know she and I have both had problems communicating with each other

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Ok you have made a great point...

[waterpuppet]

Hey thanks for the feedback. I dont really see myself completely as the victim, but when we started dating the same exact thing happened. I just have a problem with her telling me that she already has prospects in waiting just as we decide to break up, but she points the blame of the split up on me saying that she was happy and willing to work it out. IF that was so, then why do these men have an insight that I was not aware of at the time? Why didnt she tell them that she was sticking to this and to go find someone else. If you tell someone to hang around and wait, then obviously you have plans to start handing out tickets to ride. We ended our relationship because of communication issues. I hate the fact of her dating someone else as much as she does me, but I suppose it is inevitable. I really was venting as I have but a few friends here in SA to talk to and get objective feedback. Especially a womans perspective, so thanks for that, I DID read it again and will probably a few more times, but I will not change it. She and I were no different in our choices, she just acted out physically what I was hoping to act out but used the internet as a sort of cyvber "cock block" (please excuse the term)
This relationship is the longest I have ever had and ending it and going on is not the same as it was in college and high school.
you know what I mean?

Thanks again for reading and writing!

Thomas

Re: Ok you have made a great point...

[undercoverfox]

i know what you mean, i'm sorry if i sounded harsh at first. break ups are always a kick in the mouth. i hope your doing alright.
take care!
rachel