aww Moka. everyone goes through that. it'll just take time before you realize your strong enough to be you without worrying.
you're beautiful and wonderful and funny and that's all anyone needs to talk to someone. and if someone doesn't like you for who you are then clearly they are not worth your worry.
I always hate to say this but when you reach my age *feels so old* who you are becomes far more important than what people think about you. it's only natural to second guess yourself when you're young. that's how we learn which way is better.
Once time goes by you'll look for people who will tell you how much they care for you because you are so unique instead of worrying about people not excepting that uniqueness.
Sometimes these feelings of "keeping up appearances" can be heavy. Everyone wears a face, and everyone has different facets of themselves. True comfort is found when the face is destroyed, or when every facet is displayed (like a cubist painting).
I suggest to drink a cup of tea and go outside and lose yourself in outsideness. At least, it works for me.
I think it's the fact that we're growing up. When we were comfortable with ourselves, we were sort of free with limited responsibility. But as we get older and learn more about ourself, we pick out the negative parts of us, when we can't handle a certain responsibility anymore. Just smile Moka and laugh with your friends. If you are true to yourself, the people who love you, you would love as well.. for the people who don't... it shouldn't matter.
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you're beautiful and wonderful and funny and that's all anyone needs to talk to someone. and if someone doesn't like you for who you are then clearly they are not worth your worry.
I always hate to say this but when you reach my age *feels so old* who you are becomes far more important than what people think about you. it's only natural to second guess yourself when you're young. that's how we learn which way is better.
Once time goes by you'll look for people who will tell you how much they care for you because you are so unique instead of worrying about people not excepting that uniqueness.
you're so special.
never lose yourself.
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thank you
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love
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Sometimes these feelings of "keeping up appearances" can be heavy. Everyone wears a face, and everyone has different facets of themselves. True comfort is found when the face is destroyed, or when every facet is displayed (like a cubist painting).
I suggest to drink a cup of tea and go outside and lose yourself in outsideness. At least, it works for me.
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that sounds like a wonderful idea. *drives unlicensed*
thank you, anyway <3
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I think it's the fact that we're growing up. When we were comfortable with ourselves, we were sort of free with limited responsibility.
But as we get older and learn more about ourself, we pick out the negative parts of us, when we can't handle a certain responsibility anymore.
Just smile Moka and laugh with your friends. If you are true to yourself, the people who love you, you would love as well.. for the people who don't... it shouldn't matter.
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