Let's have a chat about sex, shall we?
It's been on my mind for the last few days and it's driving me nuts!!! I had a conversation with a guy from e-harmony who had quite the sexual history. We could not disagree more about love/sex/chemistry.
I have only kissed two men in my life. Once when I was 13 years old. And that was sweet. He asked first. And then we both spit cuz it was gross, laughs! And I had lots of relationships and loves but it wasn't until I was 25 that I gave my heart to Theo. When we broke up, I felt as though I lost a piece of myself (over a kiss, okay so we made out, still that was still intimate to me)So that was four years ago. I've had relationships since then. I am still the same person.
So this guy, Henry ,thinks I have no idea what love is, that I have never had a real relationship because I haven't had sex. WOW. I wonder how can anyone possibly have sex and walk away? One of the verses that I live by is found in the song of songs talks about not awakening love before it's time. For me, that helps alot. Why start a fire you can't keep up? Once you started it, you have to keep logs on it. That's why marriage is wonderful in that regard. Otherwise you are constantly aching and it's not supposed to be that way, you really hurt all the beautiful people you meet. You nevet see them, thier gifts, talents, etc. You see them as someone who can meet your need. At least that is what lust it. BTW, David, if you are reading this, obviously, Henry & I were not combatible and we said goodbye. But I want to explore this topic, K?
Sex is more than a physical act. It is spiritual, emotional, and generational. By that I mean when you have sex with someone you "inherit" their spirit, thier sons and daughters of past generations. What I mean by that is your spiritual DNA passes (all the good & bad crap)just like your what you would expect your families traits & health history would. And you know what ? It STAYS! It doesn't leave when your booty call leaves. Doesn't that just suck? LOLS! No wonder this generation is so bogged down! We have all this baggage from the generations before us. Gotta close those open doors, guys.
I once went to give plasma and had to fill out an application, I had to spend several minutes just answering questions about my sex history and I didn't have any! LOLS! And they even asked me questions about it aloud, must be pyscological too. ha!
Having sex with multiple partners, the same sex partners, etc... messes up your biology- physically, emotionaly, and spiritually. There is evidence friends! :) This not a simple thou shalt not! This is how soulties are developed.
What's a Soulties?
A soultie is anything that has a hold on you. That has come in as a result of sin and/or a result of someones elses sin against you, or another thing may have opened the door and you need to just let God show you what. Whatever the access point, a door was open to allow that persons spirit, emotions, soul, bond with yours and weigh you down. There is an oppression/depression over you because of what they did, have done or whatever took place through your relationship even though the relationship may have been over for years.
How to untie Soulties.
This isn't meant to be a formula but generaly speaking, if I was going to tell you how to do your laundry, I would suggest that you separated your clothes, then put your laundry in and then your soap. :)
1) Repent and/or release that offense which the person did
2) Walk through the relationship, the development, and all the things that were wrong and release each of them as well (if you had gifts or anything that they gave you, get rid of it, recommneded)
3) Renounce the soul tie if you know what it is say it verbally. If you don't know, ask the Lord to reveal it and/or just broadly say you renounce the every soul ties that created.
4) And most importantly plead the blood of Jesus over you, do this in His Name. Because there is victory and power in the Name of Jesus and in His blood. You don't even have to be saved to use it. LOLS. It just is.
A little more details on Soulties:
http://www.greatbiblestudy.com/soulties.php
If anyone has any questions about it or this doesn't seem to help. Shoot me an e-mail!
I have only kissed two men in my life. Once when I was 13 years old. And that was sweet. He asked first. And then we both spit cuz it was gross, laughs! And I had lots of relationships and loves but it wasn't until I was 25 that I gave my heart to Theo. When we broke up, I felt as though I lost a piece of myself (over a kiss, okay so we made out, still that was still intimate to me)So that was four years ago. I've had relationships since then. I am still the same person.
So this guy, Henry ,thinks I have no idea what love is, that I have never had a real relationship because I haven't had sex. WOW. I wonder how can anyone possibly have sex and walk away? One of the verses that I live by is found in the song of songs talks about not awakening love before it's time. For me, that helps alot. Why start a fire you can't keep up? Once you started it, you have to keep logs on it. That's why marriage is wonderful in that regard. Otherwise you are constantly aching and it's not supposed to be that way, you really hurt all the beautiful people you meet. You nevet see them, thier gifts, talents, etc. You see them as someone who can meet your need. At least that is what lust it. BTW, David, if you are reading this, obviously, Henry & I were not combatible and we said goodbye. But I want to explore this topic, K?
Sex is more than a physical act. It is spiritual, emotional, and generational. By that I mean when you have sex with someone you "inherit" their spirit, thier sons and daughters of past generations. What I mean by that is your spiritual DNA passes (all the good & bad crap)just like your what you would expect your families traits & health history would. And you know what ? It STAYS! It doesn't leave when your booty call leaves. Doesn't that just suck? LOLS! No wonder this generation is so bogged down! We have all this baggage from the generations before us. Gotta close those open doors, guys.
I once went to give plasma and had to fill out an application, I had to spend several minutes just answering questions about my sex history and I didn't have any! LOLS! And they even asked me questions about it aloud, must be pyscological too. ha!
Having sex with multiple partners, the same sex partners, etc... messes up your biology- physically, emotionaly, and spiritually. There is evidence friends! :) This not a simple thou shalt not! This is how soulties are developed.
What's a Soulties?
A soultie is anything that has a hold on you. That has come in as a result of sin and/or a result of someones elses sin against you, or another thing may have opened the door and you need to just let God show you what. Whatever the access point, a door was open to allow that persons spirit, emotions, soul, bond with yours and weigh you down. There is an oppression/depression over you because of what they did, have done or whatever took place through your relationship even though the relationship may have been over for years.
How to untie Soulties.
This isn't meant to be a formula but generaly speaking, if I was going to tell you how to do your laundry, I would suggest that you separated your clothes, then put your laundry in and then your soap. :)
1) Repent and/or release that offense which the person did
2) Walk through the relationship, the development, and all the things that were wrong and release each of them as well (if you had gifts or anything that they gave you, get rid of it, recommneded)
3) Renounce the soul tie if you know what it is say it verbally. If you don't know, ask the Lord to reveal it and/or just broadly say you renounce the every soul ties that created.
4) And most importantly plead the blood of Jesus over you, do this in His Name. Because there is victory and power in the Name of Jesus and in His blood. You don't even have to be saved to use it. LOLS. It just is.
A little more details on Soulties:
http://www.greatbiblestudy.com/soulties.php
If anyone has any questions about it or this doesn't seem to help. Shoot me an e-mail!