E harmony and all that jazz
Okay, so I am doing E-harmony. Yes, Sunshine is dating again. Or at least open to it.
1) Online dating, no I am not contradicting myself. I did say that it was harmful when you were not accountable and under some sort of covering and I was gearing that toward filipino women who were just trying to excape thier homeland for rich men they didn't love. HOWEVER, I did meet someone here in the U.S. who experienced deception 2x's! Apparently the problem is everywhere. How do you go about meeting someone in person that you've already fallen for online? With tech it's easy to be swept away by OUR own desires and imaginations rather than what the other person is saying or doing.
It is my assertation that much of the deceptioon we see is our own failure to recognize or speak our minds. We are instead given to flirt when our intentions are muddled at best (with some exceptions of course) without even knowing anything about the other person. to when its esp given thto fanciful and thought when intentions are muddled at best.
2) Dating in general. Not another contridication. I did for a time set my heart single mindedly (and still has not changed) on God however, He has not led me either way. So I am taking this time to seek Him and be open to marriage if that His Will even though I have never had a strong overwhelming desire. I wonder also how much of that is my own insecurity and coveteousness of the gifts He has given me that I am with holding. Or if I am angry, disappointed, too independent, etc... It's hard for me to think that I am because I have been through all of that. And I love the Lord. I am just so ready to move on with or without a man in my life. So many women are waiting to do this or that because they want to do it with Mr. Right. But I can't put my hopes and desires on hold for him. LOLS! WOuld if he doesn't come? Would if I don't meet him until I'm 50? I want to run a marathon! I want to climb Mr. Klimopjaro! I want to adopt! I want to travel the world! Dreams don't just happen, you have to start small. Right now!
So ya, I'm still exploring this one. Be patient, Sunny! I feel like a runner on the start line just waiting for the gun to shoot. That's great if he's here at the start, but if not, hey, maybe the next run. I might be more fit anyway :)
So ya, that's me in a nutshell, I mean in a basement in Colorado. lols.
1) Online dating, no I am not contradicting myself. I did say that it was harmful when you were not accountable and under some sort of covering and I was gearing that toward filipino women who were just trying to excape thier homeland for rich men they didn't love. HOWEVER, I did meet someone here in the U.S. who experienced deception 2x's! Apparently the problem is everywhere. How do you go about meeting someone in person that you've already fallen for online? With tech it's easy to be swept away by OUR own desires and imaginations rather than what the other person is saying or doing.
It is my assertation that much of the deceptioon we see is our own failure to recognize or speak our minds. We are instead given to flirt when our intentions are muddled at best (with some exceptions of course) without even knowing anything about the other person. to when its esp given thto fanciful and thought when intentions are muddled at best.
2) Dating in general. Not another contridication. I did for a time set my heart single mindedly (and still has not changed) on God however, He has not led me either way. So I am taking this time to seek Him and be open to marriage if that His Will even though I have never had a strong overwhelming desire. I wonder also how much of that is my own insecurity and coveteousness of the gifts He has given me that I am with holding. Or if I am angry, disappointed, too independent, etc... It's hard for me to think that I am because I have been through all of that. And I love the Lord. I am just so ready to move on with or without a man in my life. So many women are waiting to do this or that because they want to do it with Mr. Right. But I can't put my hopes and desires on hold for him. LOLS! WOuld if he doesn't come? Would if I don't meet him until I'm 50? I want to run a marathon! I want to climb Mr. Klimopjaro! I want to adopt! I want to travel the world! Dreams don't just happen, you have to start small. Right now!
So ya, I'm still exploring this one. Be patient, Sunny! I feel like a runner on the start line just waiting for the gun to shoot. That's great if he's here at the start, but if not, hey, maybe the next run. I might be more fit anyway :)
So ya, that's me in a nutshell, I mean in a basement in Colorado. lols.