valentine's day

[wakaisumo]

i had class at 8am this morning, when i got in the elevator a boy said good morning then he said "oh yeah! happy valentines day!" i told him thank you and that he was the first person to say that to me (obviously, it was only 7:45am) and he told me that he for sure wouldn't be the last. that just got me thinking about how big of a difference of

Comments

[delinquentfairy]

I always thought you were gorgeous. There should be no pressure to keep weight off if you don't want to... you're beautiful!

[oh_comely]

i think that if you're seeing a big difference in the male attention you're getting, it's probably because you've got more confidence than you did before. losing weight makes you more confident, and so does being involved in the kind of activities that made you lose weight to begin with (the dance and yoga and everything). i definitely notice that in my own life, anyway; the better i feel about myself or think i look or whatever, the more i get hit on.

i'm not denying that there are lots of people out there who look drastically better when they lose weight, or who would look better if they lost weight, but i really dont think you're one of them. youve got nice proportions and a gorgeous face. you're just naturally a really attractive person and i honestly dont think twenty pounds effects that one way or the other. and i agree with the person above, do whatever makes you happy with how you look, you look good either way.

oh yeah.. happy v day

[quiet_screaming]

I feel the need to agree with comely. Back when I knew you you were never actually big. And before I come off sounding like a jerk, what I mean is you were never really big at all. Okay... that looks better. So yah... you know what I mean now.

And because I'm a copying poser, happy valentines day.