Dec 26, 2008 22:04
I wore a black dress and boots. Just like I always told my mother I would. The first time I said it was simply because I wanted it that way. But over the years, it became it's own little symbol of defiance. My response to the statement, 'But it's just not done that way.' But I wore a black dress and boots... cause the dress is my flouncy favorite. And the boots... well... they're pirate boots made by Doc Marten. Is there anything grander than that?
Hello Kitty panties of course. Kitty or commando, those were the only options as far as I was concerned.
My Minx told me once that relationships were all about an understanding. That every couple had their own understanding of what it was about. The thing that really mattered was that they agreed on those rules. Or in our case, guidelines. We like to leave room to grow. Because we want to grow. That's part of our whole thing.
So we did this our way. In our time.
And eventually we came home. And eventually I sat down at the computer to send off a few emails. And then I marked the occasion in a way that totally amused me.
I changed my facebook status and giggled.
facebook,
minx,
marriage,
pirate,
beau,
hello kitty,
zen