Bullies.
Wow, so...you have a son, he's 10. You and his mom have been separated and then divorced for damn near his whole life. The ex wife remarries many years ago. Goes on to have 3 other kids with her new husband. In that time, you remarry, divorce, and "remarry" again, move all over the world and country. All the while calling him every few months, seeing him MAYBE once a year, and paying child support when and IF you feel like. Then, the mother of said child finds out her hubby is being stationed over seas for an indefinite period of time. The son lives with his mom and step father, and would move where they move obviously. Except that you're a bully, you're vindictive, and immature, and you make it so the son can't get a passport.
So, the step dad is forced to go to his new duty station, over seas, and leave behind his kids (including the son you have little to do with) and wife. When the rest of the family gets to go visit their dad/husband overseas, instead he'll get to stay behind with grandparents, or hopefully me, his other "mom". Pathetic. Truly.
No wonder this poor kid would rather never talk to his sperm donor again, is so horribly upset, all at the age of 10. Way to go.
You know that old saying it takes a real man to be a father? Yeah, well that applies here. Amazing how this poor kid is only important when the situation isn't what you want. When another man has to step up and be more of a father. Grow a spine. Especially since I think this situation is exacerbated by a certain "woman" in your life, one who likes to stick her nose where it doesn't belong constantly, knows nothing about anything, but certainly thinks she does.
I hate people.
So, the step dad is forced to go to his new duty station, over seas, and leave behind his kids (including the son you have little to do with) and wife. When the rest of the family gets to go visit their dad/husband overseas, instead he'll get to stay behind with grandparents, or hopefully me, his other "mom". Pathetic. Truly.
No wonder this poor kid would rather never talk to his sperm donor again, is so horribly upset, all at the age of 10. Way to go.
You know that old saying it takes a real man to be a father? Yeah, well that applies here. Amazing how this poor kid is only important when the situation isn't what you want. When another man has to step up and be more of a father. Grow a spine. Especially since I think this situation is exacerbated by a certain "woman" in your life, one who likes to stick her nose where it doesn't belong constantly, knows nothing about anything, but certainly thinks she does.
I hate people.