Advice from an exhausted mind
People have often told me I'm good at giving advice, that I have a way of seeing other people and others' problems from unique perspectives. Maybe it's true, maybe it isn't. Either way my counsel is frequently sought for whatever reasons. Sometimes my advice is heeded, sometimes it isn't. I always make it clear that I bear no responsibility for the consequences of following or ignoring my suggestions, but sometimes I also feel a need to offer counsel that I know is not sought, and consequently will not likely be heeded. I don't really know why I'm posting this, as some of the things I have to say will mean nothing to anyone that reads this. Hell, I can't even use the excuse of drink tonight as I've actually abstained for a change. Each of these is directed to a seperate person. Not all of them are aimed at persons on my flist. No names will be given, no comments will be allowed, and I will not discuss this with anyone once I have posted it. If you have questions, keep them quiet or discuss them amongst yourselves. I will not answer them. If these statements seem cryptic, good. I have deliberately phrased most of them so that only their intended recipient is likely to even understand them. If you immediately know the candlelight is fire, then the meal was cooked a long time ago.
Enjoy what you have for now, for when you need it most it will betray you.
Embrace the wonderful gift you have been given. You are luckier than you imagine, and more envied than you know.
Confidences are meant to be kept. One day you may find there are none left to be given.
I know this is hard for you, but trust me: if you can survive to the end the reward will be greater than you can imagine. I know you well, and you deserve that prize.
One day you will awaken face-to-face with yourself with no choice but to confront that reality. It may be a terrifying prospect, but that person is worth knowing and can be your strongest ally.
Have patience. I know it's hard, but one cannot sculpt marble with dynamite. Chisel properly, and I believe it will create a beautiful period for you.
You are still young and there will be plenty of time later to face the big questions in life. Don't burden yourself with them when you have not the need. For now ask fewer questions and simply enjoy what is.
Don't kill him. At least not until he really deserves it. ;)
Beware the lines you cross to absorb the limelight. Some bridges, once burned, cannot be rebuilt.
You are crazy. Flat, ape-shit crazy. Seek therapy immediately, as children should not be put through that.
That's all I have for now. I may add more later, so check back for updates if you're interested. I'm off to bed now.
Enjoy what you have for now, for when you need it most it will betray you.
Embrace the wonderful gift you have been given. You are luckier than you imagine, and more envied than you know.
Confidences are meant to be kept. One day you may find there are none left to be given.
I know this is hard for you, but trust me: if you can survive to the end the reward will be greater than you can imagine. I know you well, and you deserve that prize.
One day you will awaken face-to-face with yourself with no choice but to confront that reality. It may be a terrifying prospect, but that person is worth knowing and can be your strongest ally.
Have patience. I know it's hard, but one cannot sculpt marble with dynamite. Chisel properly, and I believe it will create a beautiful period for you.
You are still young and there will be plenty of time later to face the big questions in life. Don't burden yourself with them when you have not the need. For now ask fewer questions and simply enjoy what is.
Don't kill him. At least not until he really deserves it. ;)
Beware the lines you cross to absorb the limelight. Some bridges, once burned, cannot be rebuilt.
You are crazy. Flat, ape-shit crazy. Seek therapy immediately, as children should not be put through that.
That's all I have for now. I may add more later, so check back for updates if you're interested. I'm off to bed now.