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May 11, 2008 00:34


I am really sick of meeting people who say things to Aaron like; “Dude, how did you get her to marry you?” “What drugs are you giving her?” “You married way out of your league.”  “Is she blind?” And I’m sick of people saying things to me like; “Are you being held against your will?”  “Have the roofies worn off yet?” “Was this an arranged marriage?” ( Read more... )

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afuqua May 12 2008, 09:44:09 UTC
Hmmm... there are a few ways to address this. Reg's is a good one but here are some other options:

One, ignore it. Doc's a class act and who cares what anyone else thinks? Obviously they question their own worth and are projecting onto him.

Two, tell them exactly why you love him, in nauseating detail. Make them feel small for even suggesting he was unworthy and yet drive the nail home that while he does deserve you, that he is even luckier still that he doesn't have to prove his worth to you since you actually know it. Make sure they listen to each and every reason, don't let them get away. I promise if you do it right it plays sweetly but is just as effective as the daggers.

Three (I sugggest reserving this one for the testerone driven males) just look at them innocently and make a vague comment about the size of his.... heart.

The comments about him having you drugged I personally find even more insulting since it questions your intelligence at wanting to be with him. My response to this would be "no, they haven't worn off. I make sure to dose him every day. It's not every day a man like him comes along..." and *then* go into option 2.

I will say that the first one on the list if spoken by (most) single guys isn't so much a "you don't deserve her" as much as a "what's your technique for finding the right person, so I can emulate you?"

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vittoria0 May 14 2008, 02:38:51 UTC
Actually I do usually employ some variation of the third suggestion. It works well.

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