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Emal: hi vic
Vic: hello gremaldi
Emal: haha! must you really call me with my full name?
Emal: how are you doing over there?
Vic: eh i'm fine.
Vic: i'm doing well.
Vic: you?
Emal: gah! toxic
Emal: hehe one of my professors hates my guts
Emal: you?
Vic: hahaha
Vic: i have a great relationship with all of my professors.
Vic: that's one of many things that i do FIRST... build up a good friendship with all of my professors.
Vic: that way, the whole semester is smooth sailing
Emal: wish i have the same situation
Emal: how's lovelife?
Vic: right now... i'm single.
Vic: by choice.
Emal: why
Vic: no headaches that way
Vic: with a girlfriend, you always have to worry about unnecessary problems.
Vic: i don't want any of that.
Emal: haha there ya go!
Emal: sounds like you really know what youre talking about
Emal: how about some tips
Vic: well, what do you need...
Emal: how do you NOT get tired of being with someone
Vic: less communication.
Vic: if you see a person everyday.. you're gonna get tired of seeing them all the time. if you only see them every once in a while... there's that excitement. while you're both waiting to see each other... that long gap of time is building up anticipation. and when it's time to meet.... it's special. if you see a person all the time, the feeling of having it a special time goes away. let's say... you and me, for example. we haven't seen each other in over 5 years. and you just can't wait to see me again. there's that anticipation of excitement. and when we finally meet..... we have a LOT to talk about. there's that excitement. stories are told, etc etc. but think... if we lived next door to each other.... would you really care about seeing me right now or even talking to me? no, of course not!
Vic: why? because you see me all the time. so there's nothing special about meeting each other.
Vic: try to build up that anticipation. don't make yourself always available for her.
Vic: make yourself UNavailable sometimes.
Emal: Ok
Vic: another thing to remember is to be unpredictable. women love surprises.
Emal: haha
Emal: like what?
Vic: they can [and will] tell you how much they hate surprises... but trust me, they want the exact opposite of that. they like being surprised. be unpredictable.
Vic: you can do...
Vic: one day, just ask her out to go to dinner with you. when she asks you where you're taking her... don't tell her. just take her to the place.
Vic: then just take her to a restaurant [that you THINK] she's never been before.
Emal: we always eat dinenr together
Vic: that's why you have to surprise her.
Vic: don't tell her where you're going.
Vic: just go.
Emal: haha
Emal: ok
Vic: if she asks, tell her that she'll find out when you guys get there.
Vic: that's another thing. don't do the same things over and over again.
Vic: change it around. be more creative.
Vic: if you guys eat dinner together all the time... stop that. instead, change it around and try something new.
Emal: like?
Vic: go to a special place.
Vic: a random place.
Emal: Hmm, let me think
Vic: buy some portable food to eat [things that you can eat even while walking] and go eat at a park bench someplace or somewhere where there's a nice view.
Emal: sounds good!
Emal: ok, what else
Vic: instead of buying food... cook! prepare yourself. buy things to cook and cook it in your house the night before. then just bring it in tupperware containers or something portable. when it's time to eat and she tells you where she wants to go... say no. and again.. bring her to an unexpected place [someplace where there won't be ANY food]. that's gonna keep her guessing. the anticipation grows. then when she finally asks where and what you guys are eating.... then pull out the dinner that you have pre-cooked for her. tell her that you thought that you'd try something new and different... so you cooked dinner FOR her.
Vic: by saying that you cooked dinner for her, she's gonna feel special.
Emal: would have never thought of that one
Vic: it's more of like a picnic-dinner type environment.
Emal: very nice
Emal: what about on monthsaries?
Vic: anniversaries...?
Vic: hmmm
Vic: try to find small, cute, portable, but very thoughtful gift. it's not the size or the price of the gift that will matter to her. it's the sentimental value that you'll place on it.
Emal: like
Vic: anything.
Vic: a small ornament.
Vic: a ring...
Vic: a small teddy bear...
Emal: hmm
Vic: think of something.
Vic: be unique.
Vic: be creative.
Vic: better yet
Vic: MAKE something for her.
Vic: be artistic
Vic: women love that.
Emal: like...?
Vic: a "happy anniversary" card made out of a small folder. you can write the words "happy anniversary" using melted wax from a [good] scented candle. drop each wax til it forms the word "happy anniversary". you can also put red rose petals on there and stick it on the card using the scented wax.
Vic: anything.
Vic: to understand women, you have tot think like a woman.
Vic: if you're a girl, what would you want from your boyfriend?
Vic: then go from there.
Vic: they key is to be NOT like just every other guy. the point is to stand out and be unique. be different in a preferrential way. be outstanding in a way that you'll be preferred by women.
Vic: that's a very powerful characteristic. any woman would die to be with a man like that.
Vic: so.... BE THAT MAN.
Emal: thanks dude!
Vic: haha no problem
Vic: anytime
any questions? you know what to do.
Vic: hello gremaldi
Emal: haha! must you really call me with my full name?
Emal: how are you doing over there?
Vic: eh i'm fine.
Vic: i'm doing well.
Vic: you?
Emal: gah! toxic
Emal: hehe one of my professors hates my guts
Emal: you?
Vic: hahaha
Vic: i have a great relationship with all of my professors.
Vic: that's one of many things that i do FIRST... build up a good friendship with all of my professors.
Vic: that way, the whole semester is smooth sailing
Emal: wish i have the same situation
Emal: how's lovelife?
Vic: right now... i'm single.
Vic: by choice.
Emal: why
Vic: no headaches that way
Vic: with a girlfriend, you always have to worry about unnecessary problems.
Vic: i don't want any of that.
Emal: haha there ya go!
Emal: sounds like you really know what youre talking about
Emal: how about some tips
Vic: well, what do you need...
Emal: how do you NOT get tired of being with someone
Vic: less communication.
Vic: if you see a person everyday.. you're gonna get tired of seeing them all the time. if you only see them every once in a while... there's that excitement. while you're both waiting to see each other... that long gap of time is building up anticipation. and when it's time to meet.... it's special. if you see a person all the time, the feeling of having it a special time goes away. let's say... you and me, for example. we haven't seen each other in over 5 years. and you just can't wait to see me again. there's that anticipation of excitement. and when we finally meet..... we have a LOT to talk about. there's that excitement. stories are told, etc etc. but think... if we lived next door to each other.... would you really care about seeing me right now or even talking to me? no, of course not!
Vic: why? because you see me all the time. so there's nothing special about meeting each other.
Vic: try to build up that anticipation. don't make yourself always available for her.
Vic: make yourself UNavailable sometimes.
Emal: Ok
Vic: another thing to remember is to be unpredictable. women love surprises.
Emal: haha
Emal: like what?
Vic: they can [and will] tell you how much they hate surprises... but trust me, they want the exact opposite of that. they like being surprised. be unpredictable.
Vic: you can do...
Vic: one day, just ask her out to go to dinner with you. when she asks you where you're taking her... don't tell her. just take her to the place.
Vic: then just take her to a restaurant [that you THINK] she's never been before.
Emal: we always eat dinenr together
Vic: that's why you have to surprise her.
Vic: don't tell her where you're going.
Vic: just go.
Emal: haha
Emal: ok
Vic: if she asks, tell her that she'll find out when you guys get there.
Vic: that's another thing. don't do the same things over and over again.
Vic: change it around. be more creative.
Vic: if you guys eat dinner together all the time... stop that. instead, change it around and try something new.
Emal: like?
Vic: go to a special place.
Vic: a random place.
Emal: Hmm, let me think
Vic: buy some portable food to eat [things that you can eat even while walking] and go eat at a park bench someplace or somewhere where there's a nice view.
Emal: sounds good!
Emal: ok, what else
Vic: instead of buying food... cook! prepare yourself. buy things to cook and cook it in your house the night before. then just bring it in tupperware containers or something portable. when it's time to eat and she tells you where she wants to go... say no. and again.. bring her to an unexpected place [someplace where there won't be ANY food]. that's gonna keep her guessing. the anticipation grows. then when she finally asks where and what you guys are eating.... then pull out the dinner that you have pre-cooked for her. tell her that you thought that you'd try something new and different... so you cooked dinner FOR her.
Vic: by saying that you cooked dinner for her, she's gonna feel special.
Emal: would have never thought of that one
Vic: it's more of like a picnic-dinner type environment.
Emal: very nice
Emal: what about on monthsaries?
Vic: anniversaries...?
Vic: hmmm
Vic: try to find small, cute, portable, but very thoughtful gift. it's not the size or the price of the gift that will matter to her. it's the sentimental value that you'll place on it.
Emal: like
Vic: anything.
Vic: a small ornament.
Vic: a ring...
Vic: a small teddy bear...
Emal: hmm
Vic: think of something.
Vic: be unique.
Vic: be creative.
Vic: better yet
Vic: MAKE something for her.
Vic: be artistic
Vic: women love that.
Emal: like...?
Vic: a "happy anniversary" card made out of a small folder. you can write the words "happy anniversary" using melted wax from a [good] scented candle. drop each wax til it forms the word "happy anniversary". you can also put red rose petals on there and stick it on the card using the scented wax.
Vic: anything.
Vic: to understand women, you have tot think like a woman.
Vic: if you're a girl, what would you want from your boyfriend?
Vic: then go from there.
Vic: they key is to be NOT like just every other guy. the point is to stand out and be unique. be different in a preferrential way. be outstanding in a way that you'll be preferred by women.
Vic: that's a very powerful characteristic. any woman would die to be with a man like that.
Vic: so.... BE THAT MAN.
Emal: thanks dude!
Vic: haha no problem
Vic: anytime
any questions? you know what to do.