Okay folks, I need your help. I haven't mentioned it here on LiveJournal yet because I was hoping it would go away. But I appear to have a "Really Freaky Guy". One I do not want. You know the type
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Oh man, that does sound really freaky. You poor thing! *hugs*
I think you're going to have to be really firm with him. Well, first see if you can get away with simply distancing yourself from him as best you can, maybe turn up to lectures a minute before they're due to start and sit as far away from him as possible (and ideally near a door, so you can make a quick getaway afterwards!) But if he does run into you, I think your best bet would be to cut out any trace of politeness - smiling, nodding, eye contact, everything! I suspect that he's probably one of those guys who are too dim to realise that polite acknowledgement ≠ instant pass. Though if that fails, I think you'll have no choice but to tell him that quite frankly what he's doing is creeping you out and that from now on you will be keeping away.
And if that doesn't work, I say that Nigel should take to him with a crowbar :D
Yeah... I tried turning up just in time today, but it didn't work. During the lecture he went to touch my ear or something and I flinched, glared and turned my back to him. I would've screamed and flicked him the finger, but in accounting lectures don't handle drama particularly well. Fingers crossed that'll be enough!
Don't try to contact him about his message at all. Just stand him up. Then if he asks you about it on Monday, you can say something along the lines of "Because I don't like you as a person. I have absolutely no interest in spending any time with you at university and I especially don't want to see you any other time. Please leave me alone and stop harassing me."
If you need some support or something, I'll skip my lectures on Monday and go to yours with you instead.
Ta, that's awesome of you. Very Dave *nods* But it shouldn't be necessary. I'll always stay in crowds. And maybe even carry one of those pocket alarms that my Nana always seems to give me for Christmas!
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I think you're going to have to be really firm with him. Well, first see if you can get away with simply distancing yourself from him as best you can, maybe turn up to lectures a minute before they're due to start and sit as far away from him as possible (and ideally near a door, so you can make a quick getaway afterwards!) But if he does run into you, I think your best bet would be to cut out any trace of politeness - smiling, nodding, eye contact, everything! I suspect that he's probably one of those guys who are too dim to realise that polite acknowledgement ≠ instant pass. Though if that fails, I think you'll have no choice but to tell him that quite frankly what he's doing is creeping you out and that from now on you will be keeping away.
And if that doesn't work, I say that Nigel should take to him with a crowbar :D
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If you need some support or something, I'll skip my lectures on Monday and go to yours with you instead.
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I'll always stay in crowds. And maybe even carry one of those pocket alarms that my Nana always seems to give me for Christmas!
But seriously, thanks.
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