Burning Man 2006 will forever memorialize the official end to my relationship with Matt ( Read more... )

Excerpts from Polyamory: The New Love Without Limits Secrets of Sustainable Intimate Relationships

"Secrecy is also withholding your true feelings from another person. If something someone said made you angry or if you see how a person can grow, and you don't want to tell either of them, that's secrecy...Anytime you withhold your natural self you ( Read more... )

There's a lot going on with me. None of which I'm really sure if I want to go into here quite yet. I'm not sure if I'm ready for feedback. I'm not sure if I can relate both sides objectively enough w/o slanting it one way or the other.

I'm watching "50 First Dates." I think it's my favorite Adam Sandler & Drew Barrymore film. Well, really, there aren't many. Just two. This and "The Wedding Singer." I love the chemistry between the two of them. They're such normal looking people, the love that grows between both of them seems natural and easygoing. So real. "50 First Dates" always ( Read more... )

( Here's your get outta jail free card )

"Who's your Daddy? Who's your Daddy?"

"Why do yo keep asking me that? You're my cousin, not my Daddy!"

( Long, long entry )

A post has been percolating in my mind for several days. My brain feels as if it has taken too long of a bath ( Read more... )

I've been doing a bit of thinking. I've come to some rather hard conclusions...I've been hesitant to air them here because once I do, they are concrete. I can no longer pretend that they don't exist.

( Adventures in Avoidance )