This is something I wrote on tumblr in response to This post. It's a topic I think a lot about, and, well, I ended up spilling my guts.

( Now she's 'just a love interest' )

This post was inspired by two things. One, participating in saying_yes_2010, a sex positive art-and-fic-a-thon which seeks to "show how being the submissive or bottoming partner during sex is FUN and not demeaning -- and that bottoming and submission are far from the same thing" and a conversation with
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