This week plain sucks .....

[vegasfirebrand]

My post yesterday was ill though out.  Most on my LJ knew immediately who I was talking about without my ever using names.  It never occured to me I was sharing someone else's information without their permission.  So my apologies.  She is doing much better today.  Then damn hospital still has not gotten her into a room, but she is now in the "to

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[breakring]

Most people are cowardly weenies hon. Most people have no grasp of what they do or sense of self-restraint. Most people are into instant gratification. Most people are indolent and will say whatever they have to in order to get what they want at the very moment they want it. Most people do not understand that anything worth having is worth waiting for.

You, personally, if I might say so are going to have a secondary problem:

You tend to be very over the top in how you approach situations like new relationships and new situations. While you are more this way than most people, you are not too unusual in this regard. What is unusual is that the emotions and enthusiasms you express end up having some endurance; they go up and down, but they do not fade away into empty air the way most over the top peoples' do after the initial expression of enthusiasm or interest.

This makes you very unusual and it was why I had trouble trusting the "realness" of your emotions at first. The purity with which you approach such situations was something that took a bit of getting used to for me. I want to say some more, but I think I am going to wait till we can talk personally.

Suffice it to say that the guys you are getting together with are simply normal for that sort of "coming on like a house afire" enthusiasm.

If it were easy, or common, it would not be worth doing. I know a lot has happened for you in a short time; but in truth and fact, you have not been walking down this new path that long. It is to be expected and not necessrily a bad thing for this process to take a little time.

Besides, if you did not have to wade through the flotsam and jetsam to get to a treasure, how would you know how to value it.

As for the rest, you tend to be very environmentally reactive. Losing your comfort zone of friends, a known geographical space, a physical routine and even a familiar parking space are bound to put you off your game a bit.

See you tonight.