A Valentine's confession about friendship

[vardita]

About the bond of frienship

This is a topic I want to write about. My english maybe is not the best, I'd have some grammar fails but I will do my best.

I think the bond of friendship is unique and sacred. But I have the experience about how to destroy 7 years of friendship for a mistake. A mistake from me and my friend. A year ago he confessed me

Comments

[servetolive]

That sounds like a very intense and complex relationship. I'm sorry that it had to end that way, though. It's also unfortunate that despite you and his current girlfriend having no relationship whatsoever, she is hostile towards you. I'm not sure I understood though; were you actually able to sit down and talk with her about your situation?

"Friends with priveleges" sounds exactly like "friends with benefits," which is exactly how one would describe the relationship he wanted that you rejected. (Normal friends who have sex every now and then, right?) I'm glad you rejected it--those relationships usually end up being harmful to all parties involved. :\

Also, even though your English may not be perfect, I understood what you were trying to say very well and you're pretty good at conveying your emotions, for it not being your native language. :)

[vardita]

Thanks for your comment! There is a very complex situation, you're right. In fact I want to talk to her and tell her our history from my point of view (she heard it from his point of view, so she hates me), but first she doesn't want, and there is a distance problem. She lives in a different city. But my friend promised me he will try to have a meeting with her.

About "friends with benefits" (thanks for enlighted me about the phrase) well, I think that kind of relationships requires two people with a very open mind, but because how we started our relationship (being a formal couple) I prefered not accepting his offer. I was afraid of losing him as a friend.

I have to confess my lack of English writing practice, but I keep trying to imporve it reading and writing more often :), I'm glad to know that I could explain myself.

Thanks again!!!

[lady_drace]

Friendships like that are always difficult. *hugs*

I do hope you and he manage to find a way to be friends again.

[vardita]

Yeah, very difficult. It's a pity what happened to us. And I hope the same, to be friends again. Thanks a lot =)