Sep 04, 2005 11:56
I don't know where this came from in my head, but i'm letting it out.
This might be a little jumbled, but I don't care. Anyways. I really hate it when people don't tell the truth. It is more than just a pet peeve to me. So I was thinking. why when someone breaks up with you they don't tell the truth? They try to make it hurt "less". Me personally. I would rather have the straight up truth. Be like well I am breaking up with you for someone else. It eliminates all problems. Because when you tell someone that you don't want a relationship, but you find out that the next day they fucked someone. But you guys are still friends. It is just stupid and childish. I would rather have someone be like I don't like you anymore. And I really don't want to be friends. Rather than saying we'll be friends, but never talk or see eachother or anything. Because if you say the truth then the other person will see you for who you really are. I mean take responsibilities for your actions. If you are breaking up with someone to fuck someone else.Then you really didn't care that much about them in the first place. So don't try to hurt them less. It is silly.Because that just leaves false hope for the other person. It seriously bugs me so much when people lie to me. To the point that I'm not upset over ending of friendships/relationships, but I'm upset over the fact I was lied too. I really don't know what brought this into my mind. But for anyone who is my friend. Tell me the straight up truth rather than lying.
even though this post sounds angry i'm actually in a good mood.