My fears

Jul 06, 2010 17:41

I had a conversation with my father a few weeks ago and he told me that I had alot of fears and that I was letting them control how I did things. I agreed that this is what I was, and am doing. He told me that you can't conquer your fears if you don't know what they are. So he suggested that I write them down and then write what the solution to ( Read more... )

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brittknee July 7 2010, 03:10:44 UTC
"But to stop from having a fight with someone I will be careful about what I say to them."

Makes sense. Having the ability to read a persons personality is a good trait. Lots of people respond negatively to certain things.

"I will say that I do get annoyed when someone comes to me for advice doesn't follow it, shit goes array and then comes back to me asking what they should do and then when I tell them they don't do it and then come back to me telling me about how it went wrong so on and so on. And I have stopped that trend I no longer allow that to happen."

If that's something that bothers you enough, then I applaud you for stopping. I see how that can get tiring.

"I dunno if I agree with the real friends will always come back shouldn't they have been there all along?"

I guess I also worded that wrong. I guess I'm a believer that a real "friend" is someone who will always be there for you even if you don't hang out with them on a daily basis, talk to them everyday etc. That doesn't necessarily mean they've "left" anywhere, persay. They'll be there to listen and give advice and such no matter where they are in there life. But everyone has there own idea of what a "good friend" is so this is really open to interpretation.

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uohana July 7 2010, 06:04:53 UTC
I agree with you there on the friend thing. I don't think that friends need to talk everyday or anything like that. I think that real friends will drop things if their friend is in need. And I do believe that you are a real friend to me :D Sometimes I get sad because we don't talk for long periods of time (3-4 months) and its different from what it used to be lol. But I do consider you still as one of my true friends. Thanks for the insight into a few of my fears

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