On the plus side, you can console yourself that you did something nice for a family that's not-very-well off and gave their parents a nice evening--they probably really needed it if the kids are that bad. :)
I'm sorry, I wish I could help with Evan, but I really don't know what to tell you except to talk to him. It's hard as hell to bring up something like that, even when it's really bothersome, but the feedback I'm getting from most of my male-friends and boyfriends etc is that they really want to know this kind of stuff. I would recommend telling Evan how you feel in as nonconfrontational way as possible. If he still responds angrily, give him a couple of days to think it over. If he continues to be pissed, move on. You're a wonderful girl, and if a guy you like or love is getting angry and guilting you for being honest with him, then he doesn't deserve you.
Obviously, I don't know him so I don't know what his reaction is likely to be, so it's all just speculation.
Hmmm... Not a fun situation at all. All I can say is that everything is NOT all better in the morning: it's simply forgotten. The problem is still there. Just talk to Evan... I know it doesn't sound like fun... but talking about something like this never is. If you ignore it, it'll just come back ten times worse than it was today, which was ten times worse than it was yesterday. And everytime you ignore it, it WILL come back first. You may not like what you hear (which, in my mind, is why you havn't mentioned it, because you are afraid of what might be said). It seems you have two solutions
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I'm sorry, I wish I could help with Evan, but I really don't know what to tell you except to talk to him. It's hard as hell to bring up something like that, even when it's really bothersome, but the feedback I'm getting from most of my male-friends and boyfriends etc is that they really want to know this kind of stuff. I would recommend telling Evan how you feel in as nonconfrontational way as possible. If he still responds angrily, give him a couple of days to think it over. If he continues to be pissed, move on. You're a wonderful girl, and if a guy you like or love is getting angry and guilting you for being honest with him, then he doesn't deserve you.
Obviously, I don't know him so I don't know what his reaction is likely to be, so it's all just speculation.
Good luck, I hope you feel better. :)
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