this is jordan chronister i created this journal at first to defend myuself but this is actually a situation where im going to defend rachel and sara as well. stacey, you and your group of friends have flaked on sara so many times, or just not invited her at all. everytime she sara says she might be hanging out with her friends on a certain day, i say "have fun." im not taking the blame for this and neither should sara. stacey this is directly to you: if you want to hang out with sara more, start making serious plans to hang out with her, but most of all, follow through with them and dont flake out. shes your friend, so you need to put some effort into the friendship as well.
Trust me Jordan, if I had done anything, I would have invited her. You can't include everyone in your blanket statements much as you might like to. And if anyone's to blame, it's everyone, including you and Sara.
Sara: It's so hard to keep trying to talk to you and invite you places and do things when you're always with Jordan or have plans, or can't. I feel like I put all the time I can into this, but got and get nothing in return. Even if I wasn't the one making the plans, I know there have been group things where we all wanted you to come and you had a date. Like I said below, bring Jordan once in a while.
i have NEVER flaked out. Sara asked me to hang out ONE time since she has been back, and I already had plans to go to MEga-con. Thats not the point anyway I was trying to make
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I love you Stacy, you have been one of my very best friends since the first day of 8th grade, but don't you dare say "Fuck you" to Jordan. How can you have the audacity to come in my jordan and say that not only about someone way i care about as much as i do, but about someone that actually cares about you as much as he does. What kind of friend would do that?
As Jordan and I sat here and read this he has a dumbfounded look on his face. When Jordan initially started getting to know you, yes, it was for me, it was because he cared enough about me to want to get to know my friends. But as he got to know you more and more, he really started to like you and considered you a friend. I remember times before I moved down when he would call em and say something along the lines of "Stacy is a really cool kid. I like her." and even now, when we talk about stuff, he says that he's really glad that even if most of my friends hate him, that at least he has you and Brittany as friends.
I never ask anyone to hang out, it's not just you. I hate being the one who comes up with a date and time and stuff. Plus my weekends have been incredibly full between plants, the fair, my family, cameron(who I haven't even gotten a birthday gift yet), and girl scouts
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WTF SARA!?! i said i didnt think it was a good idea b/c others didnt like him,i dont have a problem w/ jordan ,i dont like him or dislike him...i know ur mad at me but itz a shitty thing to make me look like the bad guy...i didnt want to go to the fair cuz i hate the fair,i even told u i thought it was unfair that they could bring their b/f's and u kinda coulndt...w/e, i wasnt mad at u ,and im still not but i dont think it effects either of us whether we talk again or not,so w/e...i would appreciate if u'd stop including me in ur post though cuz i dont want a part of this whole friendship and jordan arguement...
I did nothing to wrong you and I was in no way mad at you. But if you want to terminate the friendship we had becasue you are going to be stubborn adn take out your guy problems on me, then fine, i guess i'm not the only one that "puts their boy ahead of their friends". That is deffinatly what you said though. Everyone is the bad guy right now, i'm not singling out you. Everyone, including me and including you and everyone else have issues that we need to deal with if any of us want our friendships to work out.
OH, man... just sit down and listen to some bright eyes, guys.
YEAH, SARA, WHAT ABOUT US?!?!? WHAT HAPPENED TO WHAT WE USED TO HAVE!?!?!? WHY'D YOU LEAVE ME?!?! Hahaha. Sorry, I don't mean to mock the situation or anything. I just wanted to humor you a little, cut the cords with my huge scissors.
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i created this journal at first to defend myuself but this is actually a situation where im going to defend rachel and sara as well. stacey, you and your group of friends have flaked on sara so many times, or just not invited her at all. everytime she sara says she might be hanging out with her friends on a certain day, i say "have fun." im not taking the blame for this and neither should sara. stacey this is directly to you: if you want to hang out with sara more, start making serious plans to hang out with her, but most of all, follow through with them and dont flake out. shes your friend, so you need to put some effort into the friendship as well.
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Sara: It's so hard to keep trying to talk to you and invite you places and do things when you're always with Jordan or have plans, or can't. I feel like I put all the time I can into this, but got and get nothing in return. Even if I wasn't the one making the plans, I know there have been group things where we all wanted you to come and you had a date. Like I said below, bring Jordan once in a while.
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As Jordan and I sat here and read this he has a dumbfounded look on his face. When Jordan initially started getting to know you, yes, it was for me, it was because he cared enough about me to want to get to know my friends. But as he got to know you more and more, he really started to like you and considered you a friend. I remember times before I moved down when he would call em and say something along the lines of "Stacy is a really cool kid. I like her." and even now, when we talk about stuff, he says that he's really glad that even if most of my friends hate him, that at least he has you and Brittany as friends.
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It's STACY BITCH!
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That is deffinatly what you said though.
Everyone is the bad guy right now, i'm not singling out you. Everyone, including me and including you and everyone else have issues that we need to deal with if any of us want our friendships to work out.
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YEAH, SARA, WHAT ABOUT US?!?!? WHAT HAPPENED TO WHAT WE USED TO HAVE!?!?!? WHY'D YOU LEAVE ME?!?!
Hahaha. Sorry, I don't mean to mock the situation or anything. I just wanted to humor you a little, cut the cords with my huge scissors.
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sorry i felt the need to comment at leat once on this thing. i guess you got lucky. ok i'm done.
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