I never ask anyone to hang out, it's not just you. I hate being the one who comes up with a date and time and stuff. Plus my weekends have been incredibly full between plants, the fair, my family, cameron(who I haven't even gotten a birthday gift yet), and girl scouts.
I seems like everytime you have a problem, even if we know, you push us away or just ignore it. I've told you so many times that us, every single freaking one of us, is here for you to talk to. I won't bother you with examples because I'm sure you now one or two. I'm just not someone who pushes on people for answers when they're upset. But I'm still here for you to talk to. I haven't known anything of what's going on in your life since you moved back down here. I don't like going on secondhand information, plus the only thing I hear is that you're okay. You have to tell me what's going on if you want me to know. I am, unfortunately, not a mind reader, though it'd be useful.
And I know you've turned down group stuff before because you had dates with Jordan, which is fine, but why not just ask to bring him along sometimes? We tolerate him just fine, and he really isn't that bad to be around, and we've told you that.
Of course, this takes two, and I'm up for it, but I hate phoning people, so maybe we can all plan to do something over spring break or some weekend soon. If someone makes a date, I'll be there if I can.
I've actually never turned down group stuff because I had a date with Jordan. I can't think of one time when I have ever done that.
And I would love to bring him along on a gorup outing because I would love for you girls to get to know him for who he is now, and not who he was last year, but the otehr girls really dont' want him to. For example, that day that all of the us were going to go to the fair, (you and cameron, stacy, susan, brittany and her bf/gf (whichever she had at the time), kristen, rachel and jordan) i had been talkign to kristen and rachel and i was like " since evryoen else is bringing their boyfriends or signifigant others, I think I'll bring Jordan that way everyoen can kinda get to knwo each other. And Kristen's exact responce was "You know, I don't think that's such a good idea because everyoen realyl hates him and we'll just end up ignoring him, so I dont' think you should bring him." So why would I bring him to a group outing if he's going to be subjected to such disrespect?
I agree, someitme over spring break we should all make plans to hang otu, we can have one of those girls nights like we used to.
WTF SARA!?! i said i didnt think it was a good idea b/c others didnt like him,i dont have a problem w/ jordan ,i dont like him or dislike him...i know ur mad at me but itz a shitty thing to make me look like the bad guy...i didnt want to go to the fair cuz i hate the fair,i even told u i thought it was unfair that they could bring their b/f's and u kinda coulndt...w/e, i wasnt mad at u ,and im still not but i dont think it effects either of us whether we talk again or not,so w/e...i would appreciate if u'd stop including me in ur post though cuz i dont want a part of this whole friendship and jordan arguement...
I did nothing to wrong you and I was in no way mad at you. But if you want to terminate the friendship we had becasue you are going to be stubborn adn take out your guy problems on me, then fine, i guess i'm not the only one that "puts their boy ahead of their friends". That is deffinatly what you said though. Everyone is the bad guy right now, i'm not singling out you. Everyone, including me and including you and everyone else have issues that we need to deal with if any of us want our friendships to work out.
You should bring him. I feel like I barely know him, and I definately don't hate him. He seems like he may just come off bad at first, or it may be because of last year. But I do love that he makes you happy, that's the best part. And I can tell that he makes you happy. You guys have that... thing where everyone can see how happy you two are when you're together.
I seems like everytime you have a problem, even if we know, you push us away or just ignore it. I've told you so many times that us, every single freaking one of us, is here for you to talk to. I won't bother you with examples because I'm sure you now one or two. I'm just not someone who pushes on people for answers when they're upset. But I'm still here for you to talk to. I haven't known anything of what's going on in your life since you moved back down here. I don't like going on secondhand information, plus the only thing I hear is that you're okay. You have to tell me what's going on if you want me to know. I am, unfortunately, not a mind reader, though it'd be useful.
And I know you've turned down group stuff before because you had dates with Jordan, which is fine, but why not just ask to bring him along sometimes? We tolerate him just fine, and he really isn't that bad to be around, and we've told you that.
Of course, this takes two, and I'm up for it, but I hate phoning people, so maybe we can all plan to do something over spring break or some weekend soon. If someone makes a date, I'll be there if I can.
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And I would love to bring him along on a gorup outing because I would love for you girls to get to know him for who he is now, and not who he was last year, but the otehr girls really dont' want him to. For example, that day that all of the us were going to go to the fair, (you and cameron, stacy, susan, brittany and her bf/gf (whichever she had at the time), kristen, rachel and jordan) i had been talkign to kristen and rachel and i was like " since evryoen else is bringing their boyfriends or signifigant others, I think I'll bring Jordan that way everyoen can kinda get to knwo each other. And Kristen's exact responce was "You know, I don't think that's such a good idea because everyoen realyl hates him and we'll just end up ignoring him, so I dont' think you should bring him." So why would I bring him to a group outing if he's going to be subjected to such disrespect?
I agree, someitme over spring break we should all make plans to hang otu, we can have one of those girls nights like we used to.
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That is deffinatly what you said though.
Everyone is the bad guy right now, i'm not singling out you. Everyone, including me and including you and everyone else have issues that we need to deal with if any of us want our friendships to work out.
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I love you Sara.
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