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Well, per usual its been a while
I've not had much time to update ... I like to write when I have free time which hasn't happened in a while. Mitch has been around for about a month now. I can't remember if I wrote about him ... but I am going to now.
So, he came to TN ... he slept on the floor, he watched boog while I went to work with my mom. The first night he was there I let him borrow my car so he could get some food. He was supposed to pick me and the girl that I normally take to and from work up at 11:30. I called him at about 10:30 and told him to come at 11 since we were slow. So ... he answered and said alright I got this I will be there at 11. So 11 rolls around, no Mitch. So I call my mom's house. No one answers. So I think okay mom's asleep mitch is prob on his way ... so I just wait
11:30 rolls around. No Mitch. Me and this girl are locked outside in the parking lot waiting ... its cold, shes got no jacket and she needs to go to the hospital because shes got some infection on her leg shes been dealing with and it was having issues... so shes in pain too. I call no one answers, 11:45 im getting really mad and embarassed because this girl also depends on me ... so I call 2 more times and my MOM picks up PISSED to high heaven because its like the day she has a double to work and she worked late that night too, so like I ask her where he is and she said ooh idk he is sleeping I think. Sure enough sleeping
so like 12:20 he shows up
obviously I was pissed
so ... anyways ... the rest of the trip was rather uneventfull, we took boog to the mall .. and then to dollywood with my mom it was kinda fun to have him around not in that way but like he wasn't irritating me yet.
So then we drove to fla.
Got there and just kinda chilled As soon as we got there ... Mitch took a beer from AJ after 6 months of not drinking. When he was in priory he said he would stop ... so ... that was kinda upsetting for me. his mom wouldn't see any of us and immeditaly started with bs, so that just annoyed me ... the first weekend there we went to orlando, my sister went too to spend time with his family, it wasn't too bad. Mitch watched boog and aj stayed behind with him with harry so us girls could spend time together and then the guys went on a boat the next day. We had a little party for boog too. I went to text danielle one night while I was there from Mitch's phone because mine was dead and he like flipped out of me for touching his phone. I turned on the screen and saw he was talking about calling someone later ( which he got all pissy on me for stepping out of the hotel to call james on night so I was like ... okay thanks) I chose to say something about it later, and when I did he said that wasn't true ... he didn't say it so I was like okay, its not about the relationship just don't lie to me ... I asked him about 90 times if he had someone he said no. So ... I asked him to show it to me, and he goes okay and he deleted all of the texts from the girl ... so I LOST it on him ... because that type of behavior was what ... he has always done. So I just passed it off and was like okay whatever ... I understand wanting privacy if your having a relationship but I want to know about them and please don't lie about them ... he said fine and we went on with it. it still bugged me that he deleted the messages because he says ooh well its just habbit ( he says this as he has every text from say me on there ... but not anyone else)
We got back and that is when things started to make me crazy. Well he wanted to immeditly go off and see freinds in fla which I mean I understand he has been gone for a few years so I was like okay have fun I need to enjoy boog while I can anyways, well he wanted to take my car which I wasn't really into ... he waited around long enough and finally I was like uugh I just wanted him out of my hair so I let him .... He goes down for a few hours ... calls me at like midnight and wakes me up and says ooh I have no where to stay. Trent isn't answering and brandon says I can't stay over ... I have no where to stay. So I am like uugh whatever then I guess come back up.
Like who the fuck goes somewhere to stay for 3 days and has no place to stay?
So he sticks around the house for a few days and he is using my laptop a lot ... so I step back in the room one day ... and look at my screen and he has my sent mail box pulled up in another tab. I asked him why he was looking he just lied and said he wasn't ... I was like uhm no.... it wasn't up I cleared the screen for you. and I never go into my sent mail. he is all defensive and ... no I didn't your crazy ... then a few mins later he just says im sorry. I lied. I was looking. So I ask him why he was lieing. He just said its habbit. So I told him that I am not hiding anything if he needed to know he could ask
So time goes on and he just starts being more of an ass, he started making fun of me for james and he really really liked to poke fun at me over Kyle not being into me and the fool I made of myself. He does not know that full story but he knows I tried and what I wanted ... and he knows that Kyle clearly ended up not wanting me and Mitch found it hillarious that I was rejected .... which kinda hurt because well I don't even like to think about it ... but Mitch made it worse. and just god he was on his phone litterally every 2 seconds which was making me fucking crazy. At one point Julie called him while we were having dinner he picked it up and she was apparently drunk ... and asking him to go out ... and another time a girl called alicia ( but I don't think it was his ex) and wanted to see him and like seiously ... so we eventually had a heart to heart about his phone usage because honestly it was to the point he wasn't watching boog or really doing anything without the phone in his hand like ... I've not seen someone that bad for a while. And if you REALLY have nothing going on with anyone why do you have so much time to your phone ... what can he possibly be doing?
So ... a few days go by. He planned another trip to sarasota and didn't have a place to stay ... he ended up sleeping in the car that time because I fell asleep and dani locked the door. He told me trent wasn't home when he said he would be ... idk ... but I don't feel bad he should have figured it out. I think it was just a lie
So we tried to have a bday party for people in sarasota but ... it ended up getting rained out. I was pretty upset over it so I am just going to glaze over it. pretty much it cost a lot of money and time ... and it ended up not happening even after rearranging everything for everyone ... it was sad.
So ... we got past that and started packing. I got ready to leave ... everything was packed and Mitch wanted to go out that one last night. I told him go for it ... he took the car and said he would be back that night. Right after he left I got a text message, email, and IM's on FB and Aim plus a message on fb from a freind of mine's husband... saying that Mitch and his wife have been talking and sending naked photos back and forth and they have been for a while, and thanking me for ruining his life by introducing them to one another. So ... naturally I called Mitch and was like whats all this is he lieing? Mitch completely acted like he didn't know the girl ... which I knew he did but not to that extent so I assumed he could forget her. I had talked about her a few times on the trip in fla because I thought it was odd she didn't answer me about the party and that ... she wouldn't answer texts or anything but whatever I thought she was busy with school. when we drove by her house I mentioned she lived there ( she lived by danielle) and he never acted interested. just idk ... I asked him a bunch if he was involved with anyone he aways said no and he didn't want to be. So ... After asking him in every way I could ... he still said no so I told him okay I would take care of it. So mitch called back about 10 mins later and he was like did you call him? I said no not yet why. He asked for his number and said he would handle it and I asked why ... did you do any of it. He kinda stumbled and bit and ... I asked a few more versions of the same question and finally he just said yes. .... well yes to what? You didn't do it you weren't invlved you did it? He said yes I did it all and just started crying and obviously I just lost it on him
So not only did a freind of mine you know since elementary school lie to me, she didn't have the fucking decentcy to tell me she was fucking around with my husband ... my own husband didn't
And boy was I mad.
so mad that I said he couldn't have boog ... and that I wasn't going to san diego
so here I sit.
In a hotel in San Diego
Only this go around I plan to get a divorce.
And boog is up so I can't even finish from Arrival to San Diego till now but I can get to it tomorrow. :/ This is the part I really need lj on
Till next time
I've not had much time to update ... I like to write when I have free time which hasn't happened in a while. Mitch has been around for about a month now. I can't remember if I wrote about him ... but I am going to now.
So, he came to TN ... he slept on the floor, he watched boog while I went to work with my mom. The first night he was there I let him borrow my car so he could get some food. He was supposed to pick me and the girl that I normally take to and from work up at 11:30. I called him at about 10:30 and told him to come at 11 since we were slow. So ... he answered and said alright I got this I will be there at 11. So 11 rolls around, no Mitch. So I call my mom's house. No one answers. So I think okay mom's asleep mitch is prob on his way ... so I just wait
11:30 rolls around. No Mitch. Me and this girl are locked outside in the parking lot waiting ... its cold, shes got no jacket and she needs to go to the hospital because shes got some infection on her leg shes been dealing with and it was having issues... so shes in pain too. I call no one answers, 11:45 im getting really mad and embarassed because this girl also depends on me ... so I call 2 more times and my MOM picks up PISSED to high heaven because its like the day she has a double to work and she worked late that night too, so like I ask her where he is and she said ooh idk he is sleeping I think. Sure enough sleeping
so like 12:20 he shows up
obviously I was pissed
so ... anyways ... the rest of the trip was rather uneventfull, we took boog to the mall .. and then to dollywood with my mom it was kinda fun to have him around not in that way but like he wasn't irritating me yet.
So then we drove to fla.
Got there and just kinda chilled As soon as we got there ... Mitch took a beer from AJ after 6 months of not drinking. When he was in priory he said he would stop ... so ... that was kinda upsetting for me. his mom wouldn't see any of us and immeditaly started with bs, so that just annoyed me ... the first weekend there we went to orlando, my sister went too to spend time with his family, it wasn't too bad. Mitch watched boog and aj stayed behind with him with harry so us girls could spend time together and then the guys went on a boat the next day. We had a little party for boog too. I went to text danielle one night while I was there from Mitch's phone because mine was dead and he like flipped out of me for touching his phone. I turned on the screen and saw he was talking about calling someone later ( which he got all pissy on me for stepping out of the hotel to call james on night so I was like ... okay thanks) I chose to say something about it later, and when I did he said that wasn't true ... he didn't say it so I was like okay, its not about the relationship just don't lie to me ... I asked him about 90 times if he had someone he said no. So ... I asked him to show it to me, and he goes okay and he deleted all of the texts from the girl ... so I LOST it on him ... because that type of behavior was what ... he has always done. So I just passed it off and was like okay whatever ... I understand wanting privacy if your having a relationship but I want to know about them and please don't lie about them ... he said fine and we went on with it. it still bugged me that he deleted the messages because he says ooh well its just habbit ( he says this as he has every text from say me on there ... but not anyone else)
We got back and that is when things started to make me crazy. Well he wanted to immeditly go off and see freinds in fla which I mean I understand he has been gone for a few years so I was like okay have fun I need to enjoy boog while I can anyways, well he wanted to take my car which I wasn't really into ... he waited around long enough and finally I was like uugh I just wanted him out of my hair so I let him .... He goes down for a few hours ... calls me at like midnight and wakes me up and says ooh I have no where to stay. Trent isn't answering and brandon says I can't stay over ... I have no where to stay. So I am like uugh whatever then I guess come back up.
Like who the fuck goes somewhere to stay for 3 days and has no place to stay?
So he sticks around the house for a few days and he is using my laptop a lot ... so I step back in the room one day ... and look at my screen and he has my sent mail box pulled up in another tab. I asked him why he was looking he just lied and said he wasn't ... I was like uhm no.... it wasn't up I cleared the screen for you. and I never go into my sent mail. he is all defensive and ... no I didn't your crazy ... then a few mins later he just says im sorry. I lied. I was looking. So I ask him why he was lieing. He just said its habbit. So I told him that I am not hiding anything if he needed to know he could ask
So time goes on and he just starts being more of an ass, he started making fun of me for james and he really really liked to poke fun at me over Kyle not being into me and the fool I made of myself. He does not know that full story but he knows I tried and what I wanted ... and he knows that Kyle clearly ended up not wanting me and Mitch found it hillarious that I was rejected .... which kinda hurt because well I don't even like to think about it ... but Mitch made it worse. and just god he was on his phone litterally every 2 seconds which was making me fucking crazy. At one point Julie called him while we were having dinner he picked it up and she was apparently drunk ... and asking him to go out ... and another time a girl called alicia ( but I don't think it was his ex) and wanted to see him and like seiously ... so we eventually had a heart to heart about his phone usage because honestly it was to the point he wasn't watching boog or really doing anything without the phone in his hand like ... I've not seen someone that bad for a while. And if you REALLY have nothing going on with anyone why do you have so much time to your phone ... what can he possibly be doing?
So ... a few days go by. He planned another trip to sarasota and didn't have a place to stay ... he ended up sleeping in the car that time because I fell asleep and dani locked the door. He told me trent wasn't home when he said he would be ... idk ... but I don't feel bad he should have figured it out. I think it was just a lie
So we tried to have a bday party for people in sarasota but ... it ended up getting rained out. I was pretty upset over it so I am just going to glaze over it. pretty much it cost a lot of money and time ... and it ended up not happening even after rearranging everything for everyone ... it was sad.
So ... we got past that and started packing. I got ready to leave ... everything was packed and Mitch wanted to go out that one last night. I told him go for it ... he took the car and said he would be back that night. Right after he left I got a text message, email, and IM's on FB and Aim plus a message on fb from a freind of mine's husband... saying that Mitch and his wife have been talking and sending naked photos back and forth and they have been for a while, and thanking me for ruining his life by introducing them to one another. So ... naturally I called Mitch and was like whats all this is he lieing? Mitch completely acted like he didn't know the girl ... which I knew he did but not to that extent so I assumed he could forget her. I had talked about her a few times on the trip in fla because I thought it was odd she didn't answer me about the party and that ... she wouldn't answer texts or anything but whatever I thought she was busy with school. when we drove by her house I mentioned she lived there ( she lived by danielle) and he never acted interested. just idk ... I asked him a bunch if he was involved with anyone he aways said no and he didn't want to be. So ... After asking him in every way I could ... he still said no so I told him okay I would take care of it. So mitch called back about 10 mins later and he was like did you call him? I said no not yet why. He asked for his number and said he would handle it and I asked why ... did you do any of it. He kinda stumbled and bit and ... I asked a few more versions of the same question and finally he just said yes. .... well yes to what? You didn't do it you weren't invlved you did it? He said yes I did it all and just started crying and obviously I just lost it on him
So not only did a freind of mine you know since elementary school lie to me, she didn't have the fucking decentcy to tell me she was fucking around with my husband ... my own husband didn't
And boy was I mad.
so mad that I said he couldn't have boog ... and that I wasn't going to san diego
so here I sit.
In a hotel in San Diego
Only this go around I plan to get a divorce.
And boog is up so I can't even finish from Arrival to San Diego till now but I can get to it tomorrow. :/ This is the part I really need lj on
Till next time