gotta get this out of my system
This is something that I really need to get out of my system & I desperately need some advice on what i should do. This is something personal; I usually don't do this but I really need some help..
( Can people truly change for the better? )
( Can people truly change for the better? )
I know you're in pain, but Ihave no other way of saying this - Leave him behind and move on!!!
BELIEVE ME.
He was everything to you and right now you think he deserves to have another chance because of the love you have for him. But he doesn't.
He had plenty of chances.
Once you move on, maybe even after a few months, you'll see you made the right decision and you'll feel stupid you even tortured yourself for that long.
Yes, I know love is not always easy.. But on his side, that's not love.
A lot of guys will tell you that they are idiots who just can't aprecciate something untill the loose it.
I used to believe that, cause that's what my ex kept telling me.
But then, a year later, a met a guy who is just wonderful, who ALWAYS aprecciates me and treats me with respect, who never broke up with me, never thought I'm not the one.. And he's been the same way for 3 years now.
There are guys who are like that, believe me. Those guys are mature and they know what they want in life and in a relationship, and those guys deserve second chances if they mess up.
Your guy doesn't.
From my experience and a lot of other relationships I've seen close up, this is just a tipical first "great love". Only it's not. It's what you have to go through to learn how to be strong and realize what you need from your partner.
Your REAL GREAT LOVE is waiting for you around the corner, it will be the best feeling you'll ever had and it will make all this drama worth living through..
Cause you will find true love. Trust me. You deserve more, just go on and don't look back.
You're not responsible for anyone's behavior and the person they became.
It's normal you're making excuses for him, but that is just the guy he is. The snobby guy didn't make that of him. It's who he is.. You need to see that.
You are obviously smart and worth so much more than him... LEt yourself be free of this torturing situation.
I hope this is somewhat helpful..
I know how you feel. It's never easy, but it will make you stronger in the end!
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i am SOO happy that you found such a wonderful guy! :D you seem like such a great person who deserves love :)
i just want to say that i really enjoyed your comment! you make me want to believe that there a great guys out there & true love does actually exist. so thank you for making me believe that the saying "they're all the same" isn't true. :)
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