gotta get this out of my system

Aug 29, 2008 16:22

This is something that I really need to get out of my system & I desperately need some advice on what i should do. This is something personal; I usually don't do this but I really need some help..

Can people truly change for the better? )

! aboutthegirl

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ucdshoelace August 29 2008, 20:43:08 UTC
I came over from girl_advice :)

But really...really? Really? Seriously?

I'm sure this guy is wonderful and very worthy of being loved.....

OK, actually, I'm not. You gave him 2 chances to prove to you that he's not a moron, and it seems that all he did was one-up his stupidity. Yet, you still picked up the phone for him and continued to believe that something would be different.

Doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results is what I call the definition of insanity.

And wtf does he mean by love is not "enough" for him? Perhaps it would be enough if there were more tight clothes, silicone breasts, and alcohol involved?

You've been trying to change him with the powers of your wonderous love, and it's just not quite working out. It's important to recognize when your attempts at recovery are failing so that you can move on. I know this is someone who has been an important part of your life for a long time and you're just not going to "get over it" overnight, but it's something that you'll have to wake up every morning and make that choice over and over again.

Which is pretty much the choice to not let this idiot control you or your life any longer.

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undertheecovers September 1 2008, 04:56:03 UTC
thank you so much for your comment! i am trying my best to start my life over again & surround myself with positive people who actually care about me. thank you once again :)

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